I will read the bible throughly but I need quick help...

[Joe_21]

I'm a newbie.

I have not read the bible but I need quick help, and was wondering if someone can give me some good advice.

A new coworker that just started has shown great interest. She sends flirty e-mail, and we've gone out to lunch with just the two of us. Today I asked her for her number.

She is the type of girl that I would want to actually spend quality time with.

Never have I never expressed my interest other then asking for the number.

I know there is dangers of dating coworkers, but this might be worth the risk. Can I just ask her out or is it better to let her guess? If we just end up friends it will suck lol

Thanks ... not that big of a deal, could just let it pass...

 

[CarlitosWay]

I'm a newbie.

I have not read the bible but I need quick help, and was wondering if someone can give me some good advice.

A new coworker that just started has shown great interest. She sends flirty e-mail, and we've gone out to lunch with just the two of us. Today I asked her for her number.

She is the type of girl that I would want to actually spend quality time with.

Never have I never expressed my interest other then asking for the number.

I know there is dangers of dating coworkers, but this might be worth the risk. Can I just ask her out or is it better to let her guess? If we just end up friends it will suck lol

Thanks ... not that big of a deal, could just let it pass...

So did you get her number??! I hate "asking" for a number. I usually say something like yeah I want or I'm going to do this or that lets go!! "Let's exchange numbers"

What's letting her guess going to do? Plenty of women guess about **** daily. It's the guys who react and make her feel a certain way who get the broad.

Take it from me I have banged a broad at work (she no longer works there) it was a bit awkward after our little fling. Cause she still really liked me but I didn't want anything serious at all and honestly got myself in more then I bargained for (she was kind of crazy and had a kid).

 

[Iceberg]

I'm a newbie.

I have not read the bible but I need quick help, and was wondering if someone can give me some good advice.

A new coworker that just started has shown great interest. She sends flirty e-mail, and we've gone out to lunch with just the two of us. Today I asked her for her number.

She is the type of girl that I would want to actually spend quality time with.

Never have I never expressed my interest other then asking for the number.

I know there is dangers of dating coworkers, but this might be worth the risk. Can I just ask her out or is it better to let her guess? If we just end up friends it will suck lol

Thanks ... not that big of a deal, could just let it pass...

Well, just thinking about it logically....how would it be better to let her guess? How does letting her guess help you to accomplish whatever it is you're trying to accomplish?

I think that'll answer your question.

And aside from that, "asking her out" doesn't have to be some big, lofty thing. You could just say "Let's go out for drinks." It's not like a marriage proposal..."Would you like to go on a DAAAATE with me?" Just chill out. Take it easy.