I'm not gonna lie, I have been quite an AFC at this point, but I am working on it. This semester at college I think that I will be completly over it for one reason. I have a public speaking class. How will this help me not be AFC you ask. Because there are three guys(me included) and about 25 girls and of that 25 about 8 are HB's. I feel that this is the best thing to happen to me because if there is one thing to boost confidence it is public speaking and having the class being 99% girls helps out alot also
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I will never be intimdated by girls again
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Most people speak at too rapid of a rate when giving a speech. It is a side effect of nervousness. Talk slowly, project your voice, don't fidget, and don't say "uh" or "um." The Toastmasters speech club keeps a horn or noisemaker and honks it at the speaker when he says either of those words, because it is a very bad habit that many people have. Good luck to you.