"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I will have the forum know...

SgtSplacker

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That I just got friendzoned on my very first date with a girl from POF...

I will not post this entire next week to allow myself ample time to meditate on my failure.

In my defense I did kiss close...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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chath

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looooooool

at this point you should just keep her for a friend, maybe she has some friends you can meet. i go out with mediocre girls on POF just because i see she's the runt of the litter and i want to meet her hotter friends(usually they are in her pics on POF, group photos).
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Waaah.

FYI, Splacker: 'POF' isn't for 'Plenty Of Friends', dork! :down:
 

SgtSplacker

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Alright i'm cancelling my penance, she asked me out on a "date" this morning lol. I'm a happy splacker
 
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