"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I will go out with a model tomorrow night

ChaoticGamer

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Well,

Believe it or not, I still find it hard to believe it myself.
She's a Girl I met some time back, and was the hired gun for some car Brand, in a car expo.
We have rarely spoken, In fact we haven't talked like for a year now, Then I casually saw her online, and I thought, What the hell.... So I sent her a message, and in less than 3 sentences I asked her out, I reiterate that I did this while thinking there's no way an HB10 would ever say yes.

But, Oh boy, was I surprised... She said: alright pick me up at 7:00..

Now I'm writing this thread because, I'm conscious she's the hottest girl that has accepted to go out with me, and I need advice because, I feel I'm coming from a very weak place.

What do you do in a date of this caliber ?

CG.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jocca

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treat her as if shes no different from anyone else. Be fun, confident and know that she has to prove herself to you not the other way around. Other than that have a good time:up:
 

CarlitosWay

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lol You asked her out online through a message? well anyways..take joccas advice. She's probably used to having guys kneel at her feet all the time. Show her the REAL man she unknowingly wants:)
 

ChaoticGamer

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Yeah, I did it online. he he he

I wonder if the reason for me to be nervous is the fact that I keep thinking about failure only......

I just want to avoid the number 1 date killer... Boredom.

Other than that, I think it's too late to acquire new abilities and make them my own right now....

Oh, how much I need to get rid of this nervousness.....

Thanks for the advice,

Talk to you soon
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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