"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I will go out with a model tomorrow night

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ChaoticGamer

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Well,

Believe it or not, I still find it hard to believe it myself.
She's a Girl I met some time back, and was the hired gun for some car Brand, in a car expo.
We have rarely spoken, In fact we haven't talked like for a year now, Then I casually saw her online, and I thought, What the hell.... So I sent her a message, and in less than 3 sentences I asked her out, I reiterate that I did this while thinking there's no way an HB10 would ever say yes.

But, Oh boy, was I surprised... She said: alright pick me up at 7:00..

Now I'm writing this thread because, I'm conscious she's the hottest girl that has accepted to go out with me, and I need advice because, I feel I'm coming from a very weak place.

What do you do in a date of this caliber ?

CG.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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treat her as if shes no different from anyone else. Be fun, confident and know that she has to prove herself to you not the other way around. Other than that have a good time:up:
 
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lol You asked her out online through a message? well anyways..take joccas advice. She's probably used to having guys kneel at her feet all the time. Show her the REAL man she unknowingly wants:)
 
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Yeah, I did it online. he he he

I wonder if the reason for me to be nervous is the fact that I keep thinking about failure only......

I just want to avoid the number 1 date killer... Boredom.

Other than that, I think it's too late to acquire new abilities and make them my own right now....

Oh, how much I need to get rid of this nervousness.....

Thanks for the advice,

Talk to you soon
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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