"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I will do my first cold approach monday!

bbestar

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I will approach any girl between the ages of 18-28
This opener is specifcally for mall type situations, where you actually work in one. Like a t-mobile store im working at.

I will approach wearing my neck tie and coat, walk up to them..
I ask them, " Hi!", I can tell your having an awesome day"
"My friend over there", I point at the t-mobile store where im working at.
"he is kinda a shy but he wants to ask you a quick question, and if you answer this difficult question, he will just have to give you a prize.

"Are you single?" she answers yes. Thats great cause My friend T-mobile would love have a relationship with you! Would you like your prize right now.

Follow me to the store, point to the phone and close the sale... BAM!

Goals: One Cellphone toward my quota, increased my commission dollars, and number close a girl with a number I created.. lol

Or create an insta date after cellphone close...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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organizedconfusion

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dude, are you trying to close a deal on a cell phone or her? why wait til monday? i do cold approaches anywhere and anytime..the first one is always the hardest because the nerves all there to remind you that it's never easy the first time around..you'll get used to it..trust me...it may hurt if things don't go your way, but would you rather feel temperarily down and move on becoming stronger because of it and learn from it , or would you never make the first move and stay down ,and lonely and starving? 'do it'..'do it'..:cheer:
i like th t-mobile thingys, minus the 'posers'...good luck on monday!!!:cheer:
 
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