I went over to this girls house

[nesblu]

I went over to this girl's house today and it was me, herself and her friend. We kind of chilled and I cracked some jokes, got in a lot of Kino and just had fun in general. I'm trying to get with this girl, but I'm not sure if she just wants to just be friends. She actually touched me a lot and laughed at my jokes. I couldn't really escalate too much with her because her friend was there and her parents were home. I'm thinking she invited me to chill at her house in front of her family and her friend to get to know me more before we hang out a lone and I can escalate. I'm just not sure if I should go for it, I just don't feel like getting rejected by this pretty hot girl.


Someone told me I'm at game over because she invited me when her friend and family were at her house. she avoided being a lone with me and wants to place me in the LJBF zone. Is this really true?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Why not go for it? Please list pros and cons for going vs not going for it.

What he says is a possibility, but why wonder? Just go figure it out.

 

[BPH]

Why not go for it? Please list pros and cons for going vs not going for it.

What he says is a possibility, but why wonder? Just go figure it out.

What he said...

But it does sound like a LJBF

 

[Illuminatus]

I went over to this girl's house today and it was me, herself and her friend. We kind of chilled and I cracked some jokes, got in a lot of Kino and just had fun in general. I'm trying to get with this girl, but I'm not sure if she just wants to just be friends. She actually touched me a lot and laughed at my jokes. I couldn't really escalate too much with her because her friend was there and her parents were home. I'm thinking she invited me to chill at her house in front of her family and her friend to get to know me more before we hang out a lone and I can escalate. I'm just not sure if I should go for it, I just don't feel like getting rejected by this pretty hot girl.

You will be singing this swan song for the rest of your life unless you change things NOW.

Nobody ever gets anything worthwhile in this life without risk -- and being rejected by a girl is just about the tamest of risks there is. How are you going to make decisions concerning your job, your future, or your finances, which involve risk, if you cannot even risk getting rejected by a GIRL?

See the bigger picture, man. And go and risk that rejection ASAP.

Someone told me I'm at game over because she invited me when her friend and family were at her house. she avoided being a lone with me and wants to place me in the LJBF zone. Is this really true?

Who gives a sh*t what other people tell you. There are only two options:

1) She likes you
2) She doesn't

You will only find that out by getting her alone and escalating, for example by trying to kiss her. If you do not do this, you are not finding anything out, and are instead choosing to remain in this "grey zone" of not knowing because it's more comfortable. Snap out of it, and go for this girl at the next opportunity.

And good luck!