"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I went out last night and do not know whats wrong with me.

aix237

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Ok I went out last night and for some reason i think im not to where i need to be obviously. I was at this one bar talking with all my friends then this hb 8 and her hb 7 friend come in. I went to college with the hb 8 never really talked to her in school but saw her all the time. I looked towards her a couple of times and each time she was starring right at me. This happened before to with another hb8 that i went to school with pointed at me whispered in ear friends her but i didnt do anything in both situations. that was such a green light for me to go talk but i didnt.

then i went to another bar. i was walking around and this hb 6.5 (she gets point taken off cause shes a b!tch) taps me on the shoulder and was like hey!!. i turn and look at first i didnt really know who she was then i was like oh sh!t whats up. ive known her for a couple of years in college. not really close frioends but close mutual friends. i actually slept in her bed w/her one time but didnt do anything cause shes just a b1tch straight up. anyways when i was talking to her last night i noticed i got nervous (it couldve been because i think shes such a b!tch that i wnated to say fvck you.) i was leaning in to talk to her a big no no i kind of acted like i wanted to stay there and talk all night. not good eye contact, she kept on asking what you doing blah blah but i shouldve been like hey i only have like 2 mintues but what have u been up too then when back to my friends. wtf is wrong with me. i need to brush up on my skills. fvck.

I have so many opportunities espically when i go out. i see a lot of girls that i went to school with and they are usually hb 7s and up. and everytime they always stare constantly. i dont want to even start to talk about all the times ive been in a girls bed with her pvssy just waiting there and me just deciding well if there not going to make the first move im going to bed. I fvcked some girls but i could fvck way more a lot of opportunity. im just use too the girl doing all the work. spoiled i know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChrizZ

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So you´re basically telling us that you´re a pu$$y because you don´t approach?
 

Kings_royalty

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im just use too the girl doing all the work. spoiled i know.

It doesn't sound like you are spoiled, it sounds like you are timid. If the girls don't make the move, you are $hit out of luck, that's not good.

Girls want a man that can 'lead' and isn't afraid to take chances. Most girls won't make the first move, regardless of how attracted they are to you. So, you probably missed out on ALLOT of action because you didn't know how to approach, or were afraid of getting a negative reaction.

And as far as the hb 6.5 being a b*tch goes, she only acts that way because you allow it.
 

Gubby

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You care too much. You take it and her seriously. If she's a bit'ch don't try to **** her. Think of yourself as the prize. You need to get a life, as per Pook: Live laugh love, in that order.
 
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