"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I watched this movie Chloe the other night and a few things stood out.

Warrior74

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here is the trailer.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhYiQNmI1VI

My roommate rented it for the lesbian scene he heard about.The ending was mediocre, the story was pretty predictable. But the lessons in it was pretty interesting. It's billed as romantic thriller, but its not. It's a deconstruction of the aging woman's psyche.

The first thing that stood out to me is that this woman while smart and accomplished is still a woman, with a woman's needs. It shows the true nature of game laid bare. It shows aging women and their fears once they hit the wall. In a very telling quote she tells her husband, you keep getting brighter and better and I'm just getting, old. It's like I'm invisible. It also shows that women both hate and love the fact that other women want you. Pre selection is golden. They may act out against it, play games, and manipulate but they would rather act out against a man with options than settle for a man with none. As Roissy says, 5 minutes of alpha is worth more than a lifetime of beta.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm torrenting it now. Sounds very interesting.
 
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