College isn't an orgy where all the guys f*ck all the hot girls, get paid well, go on trips, get straight A's. have the time of their life. You don't what people are going through. I hit academic probation after year 1 of engineering. Was freaking out and thought I was the only one out of all my friends who did so bad. After 3rd year, learned 4 of my friends who I thought got straight A's all hit academic probation in year 2. Two more of my friends flunked out.From where I'm standing, the norm seems to be a wild time in college, great roommates both in college and afterward, plenty of social hobbies, a solid well-paying career, annual music festivals, regular trips abroad with friends, and general contentment with how they spent their youth.
Thought all the guys I knew were sleeping with hot girls left and right. Now I know everyone who got married was a virgin when they did.
Thought everyone got paid $100K right of college. I got friends who got engineering degrees, just filed for bankruptcy.
You are watching way too much tv bro. Tv and movies know how to appeal to your emotion. They know how to make you scared that you are missing out. They know how to show that all hot guys sleep with the hottest youngest girls within 15 seconds of meeting them with minimal effort.
The stuff you see on tv and in movies is fantasy, it isn't real life.