"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was wondering which kind of guy scores in feminized countries

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Someone here posted months ago a research in which emerged how women living in welfare provided countries are more likely to seek less masculine men compared to dangerous countries.

For what I recall the comparison was between Belgium being the welfare/public health paradise and Russia being the "help yourself country".

At this point if we consider those facts as true I wonder what counts the most for women in countries with a feminized society (like scandinavian ones leading), if its still feminine instinct or socialization process to influence the most the hamster powered gender.

Anyone has to say anything about it due to your experience or considerations while travelling?

I found out this to be somehow true althought limited to exchanging students.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I believe it. The Russian chicks I've dated (who came from Russia and settled in the US) all b*tch about men here being "boys" rather than men, which I assume means they (the American men) are more feminine than I guess Russian guys are.

But keep in mind that all women in one locale aren't the same. There is a wide spectrum. There might be some trends, but no matter what kind of guy you are, if you put yourself in front of enough women you'll find ones you're compatible with.

Which is why I don't understand dudes who b*tch about American women "all" being such-and-such. :confused: There are 100+ million adult American women. That's a diverse population. You'll find hundreds of thousands of every type.
 

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What is obvious is that in some countries men dont like women and women dont like men back, as if both were looking for something different.

Just think about western european men prefearing eastern european girls and western european women getting railed from turkish and egyptian during summer vacations.

Not sure if the item is the welfare state or simply the tendency to make genders less polar, probably the welfare state is a conseguence more than a cause.
 
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