"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was wondering which kind of guy scores in feminized countries

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Someone here posted months ago a research in which emerged how women living in welfare provided countries are more likely to seek less masculine men compared to dangerous countries.

For what I recall the comparison was between Belgium being the welfare/public health paradise and Russia being the "help yourself country".

At this point if we consider those facts as true I wonder what counts the most for women in countries with a feminized society (like scandinavian ones leading), if its still feminine instinct or socialization process to influence the most the hamster powered gender.

Anyone has to say anything about it due to your experience or considerations while travelling?

I found out this to be somehow true althought limited to exchanging students.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I believe it. The Russian chicks I've dated (who came from Russia and settled in the US) all b*tch about men here being "boys" rather than men, which I assume means they (the American men) are more feminine than I guess Russian guys are.

But keep in mind that all women in one locale aren't the same. There is a wide spectrum. There might be some trends, but no matter what kind of guy you are, if you put yourself in front of enough women you'll find ones you're compatible with.

Which is why I don't understand dudes who b*tch about American women "all" being such-and-such. :confused: There are 100+ million adult American women. That's a diverse population. You'll find hundreds of thousands of every type.
 

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What is obvious is that in some countries men dont like women and women dont like men back, as if both were looking for something different.

Just think about western european men prefearing eastern european girls and western european women getting railed from turkish and egyptian during summer vacations.

Not sure if the item is the welfare state or simply the tendency to make genders less polar, probably the welfare state is a conseguence more than a cause.
 
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