I was warned about an inapropriate conversation at work

[SinRod]

It's definitely not sexual harrasment, but it was a very weird cold read to be sure. I doubt she thinks he's harrasing her, but she probably just thinks he is a little creepy and so her boss came to him to save him the embaressment of being called a creep by continuing to give her the heebee jeebees.

I'd try some other form of cold read, damn.

I can see what you mean if I didnt know the girl but i been talking to her for close to 3 years now. If I had not known her, then I can can see why she might have of been creeped out.

Anyways, she is a dam **** tease. I asked her to cook for me once and she says "maybe."

But I learned my lesson, I am not gonna neg or cold read women ever again at work.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

Id say keep the job and forget her. I lost an excellent job over some stupid girl. I was pretty mad, she actually initiated convo and flirted with me, i was like f it, i got back at her and she reported me. I was pretty pissed

 

[Bonhomme]

Nut job chick. Follow PhatE1vis' advice.

 

[SinRod]

Update

Guys I need help.

today The crazy biatch passes by me for the first time since her boss talked to me. She smiles and acts like everthing is all good, right, but I kept walking by, just smiling and ignorijng her, but then she stopped and asks me my last name! WTF! I said why do you want to know my last name, she asked me again, smiling and all, acting like she is my friend. I jioked and said said my last name is classified information and then I walked away.

OK, guys. Help me out. When she ask me my last name, I got an uneasy feeling. I know I wont be fired, but I'm FUGGIN pissed!!!!!! and I dont want to do the wrong thing.

I am so angry. I feel like everybody thinks im a creep or something and I'm not.

A co-worker of hers came by and says she is trying to get my last name.

Should I talk to my boss?

Advise please.

 

[Effington]

Aha, your last name is classified information? Smooth.

It sounds like she is acting like a melodramatic drama queen and looking for attention, honestly. If you haven't done anything wrong, then you have nothing to worry about. Just go about your day as usual and try not to think about it. If she tries to press the issue, it will probably just end in her looking bad--she won't get in trouble, but you know how fast rumors can spread through the office if someone says she falsely accused someone.

Talking to your boss doesn't sound like a bad idea if you have good repour with him/her. Some bosses have your back. Otherwise if you get along with anyone in human resources I'd try to drop by their desk and ask for advice.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I had a girl do the EXACT same, SinRod. Where do you live? This could be the same chick. I eventually got fired too, because the "new" young manager (not the older one who hired me) wanted me out of the way so he could move in on her. She advanced/flirted on me and initiated all banter in the beginning, we went out, and kissed in her car with her girlfriend present till 2 AM. I called (she gave me her # without me asking for it) and left a voice message about a week later thinking nothing of it, and she tells my manager that I'm stalking her! He calls me in and spells out the state's law on this stuff, and like I'm ok for now, just stay away from her. Well, she starts heavily flirting with me asking me "what I'm doing for the" holidays etc., trying to let others see her bring me something to work on together (just us) behind closed quarters. I immediately get back into the light so everybody can see me and they (the older manager) can see "what she's up to."

Anyway, because she's a girl and all the people in control are men, I eventually get fired for something sooo trivial it's sick. But I'm in a better position now and am stronger for not having to continue on with that sh1t company haha. They still see me and are jealous of me haha. They let go their best worker (I never missed a day's work for a full 2 years) had all this vacation money left when they fired me heh. I still see this gal and she's Flirting with me again, though I'm with another better company now. Talk about fvcked up. This one's a regular "house of a 1000 bodies" massacre chick.

 

[SinRod]

Well fellas my boss and me get along good. So I told my boss what happened and so my boss wrote down what i told her and then my boss told me to keep telling her what the crazy fvucking cvnt does...i also told her i didnt appreciate that the crazy girls whole dept. seems to know about the situation.

I feels pretty good about things now.