"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was trying to dance with these girls

Alittude

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Yeh pointing at her and just laughing would be good or when she said "out of your league" you could have said "I'm sure that's what the shop assistant said when you were looking at that dress because you certainly don't have the body to pull that off".

That will sting her quite bad baha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ready123

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Danger said:
An eye roll is always a good neg.
haha, or give her one of those "are you retarded?" looks
 

The Inside Man

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Even if she was serious thats happened to almost every guy at somepoint who tries to grind on random chicks at different clubs...myself included. Analyze if you did anything wrong, were too drunk, etc... Although its possible you didnt do anything wrong she just wasnt feeling it or had a bf at home.
 

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Just roll your eyes, or say something in the line of "yah I know I'm too good for you, but I'm giving you a chance."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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