"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was too late

Oni

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I wanted to start making my move on this girl that i just met a couple of days ago. But it seems like she's interested in another guy and they dont even talk much, maybe except online. So i was wondering is it still too late for me to make a move and go in for the grab =/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by Oni
I wanted to start making my move on this girl that i just met a couple of days ago. But it seems like she's interested in another guy and they dont even talk much, maybe except online. So i was wondering is it still too late for me to make a move and go in for the grab =/

If there is no ring involed you are never too late


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Oni

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How will anyone deal with this situation? Never came across 1 like this b4 =/
 

strams4ever

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All hot girls are intersted in LOTS of guys. She talks to a guy she likes online? big deal, call her up and go hang out... calling her is one of those things you gotta do..
Goodluck
 

08aisaac

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Don't be stupid. I mean come on.

HB's are like Dj's in the sense that they like tons of people. I mean you always have a chance. And girls are masters at hiding there attraction. But I would reccomend looking fo rother girls, because that garuntee's success. Like have aleast 5 that you are persuing at any given time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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floydtheater07

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I got an incredibly hot girl who was attracted to several guys. It' just human nature to be attracted to a few people, at least. If you're the best choice, she'll choose you.


It helps to tell yourself you are the best choice.
 
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