"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was supposed to go to the Windy City smokeout this weekend with 6 friends

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Windy city smokeout is a country music festival in Chicago (good music, great food). I was supposed to go Sunday with my 2 male friends, his girlfriend and like 5 of her friends

My male friends are both cancelling so I would basically just go with his girlfriend and their friends. Should I still go? I get along great with her so I don't think it would be awkward but I'm not used to hanging out with 5 women (only one in the group is single but she's not my type - she's a white girl, blonde, california blonde type). Would I still have fun? the girls are all 21-25 but my buddy's girlfriend is pretty mature for her age

I'm used to having all male friends. Is it going to be awkward? I'm not used to just hanging out with women with no romantic interest involved. I strongly prefer male friends...
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is exactly the sort of thing I would have made myself do when I was younger, just to get the social experience of it. It might be awkward, but who cares? You should come out of it feeling more relaxed around women.

Just don't bore them to death telling them how great you are.
 

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Go. It'll be awkward and fun.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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