I was rejected by 4 girls last night

[DonDan]

Ok, this is what happened. After new years me and my friend and his gf went to this house which we heard was having a party. We got there, it was like a orgy house mainly so im guessing the party was over.. no music playing.. just people kicking back and drinking / passed out.. and girls and guys all over the house doing stuff in like 6 different rooms.. anyways...

So im just standing there with my friend and his gf , and these 4 girls were standing like 4 feet away from me with tags around their necks... And then my friend kinda pushes me a lil bit forward and then he says "this is my homie danny he is single if any of u are interested".. and then i just looked at them and gave this smile and waved and they just looked down and around... didnt even say anything.. and im like "soo, u guys are in a party krew huh?" and theyre like yeah straight smooth was up!! and then other party krews in the house start sayin their name and im like... oh cool.. and then they just walked away...

So ya.. Im wondering, what would u guys have done??

 

[aftershock]

You gave them a show of interest without qualifying them.

It's the same reason dancefloor sarging is a bad idea - all they have to judge you on is your looks. You haven't let them see what a great guy you are, they just think you're another chump.

 

[Jay Jay]

Hmmm...

I would have completely ignored em.

Or I would have gone in full energy new years eve party mode. "Lets party ladies!" "What you four doing standing around all quiet and ****? Its New ****ING Years!"

Either way you needed to make yourself seem like the prize (which you really were). Instead it sounds like you tried to qualify yourself.

JJ

 

[DJDamage]

So ya.. Im wondering, what would u guys have done??

First off I would tell me friend to STFU because he just ruined everything with this comment.

Second I would tell him to talk to 2 of the girls that I don't want so the pressure will be off me and I can concentrate on the two that look good. Then the one that warms up to me the most I will pull her aside (isolate) after 5-10 mins and get her number.

 

[Ojete]

It could be they were not interested in you from start.

But, if you were in a place with many girls with more possibilities things would have been different.

Better luck nex time, there's nothing to worry about

 

[ryannath]

Get a girl's # on New years? yeah, you can do that, but i'd try to be fvcking them first before the #. It was freakin New Years!

 

[Snow Plowman]

Offer value and plow. Roll the the first chick "Are you Drunk? Your drunk aren't you." Looking at the other girl "She's drunk isn't she? I can tell because that look that she gives me its like she wants to jump on me right now...but I need trust and comfort." Plow that ****, kino, Push/pull "We shouldn't be going so fast...I'm emotionally sensitive."

You get the idea.