You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You are the one in the blue shirt / black tie at 11 seconds aren't you. What is up with the white chics shoulder to the right at 11 seconds? She looks petite but that is a big manly shoulder and arm. Tranny?cordoncordon said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MaybeMarried Buried said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ahhh yes. Wei-Yen Chen. Had a really solid year.Rubirosa said:
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That girl is the gf of one of the other guys we ended up hanging out with. Very pretty. Not a tranny just may be a few pounds overweight?
The girl in the white at 8 seconds is the gf of the guy who's abs they are touching. Funny story. My wife and I were staying at the Encore, a Wynn property, and we went to work out Fri afternoon before we went out to club that night. We walk in and these two guys are there working out and they looked like Dan Bilzerian to a T. My wife and I looked at each like "wtf what are the odds haha". I mean the contest was at the cosmo and here we are down the strip at a different hotel and these guys are here. I started talking to them and one was the guy who's abs my wife and that girl in the white are touching. Name is Daniel. Really good guy. Lives here in CA and we are going to hang out in the future. Another guy was there and a girl was sitting down against the wall. I talked to her a little and thought she was cute but nothing more. Ended up going to dinner with all of them and the girl in the white shows up (abs guy gf) and its the girl sitting down against the wall in the gym. SMOKING HOT. Would not even guessed it was the same girl. Goes to show you what make up and dressing up can do for a girl. Anyway we ended up hanging out with them all night at the club and contest and after. Daniel is also the guy at the 43 second mark feeling up the other guys beard haha.
No roids, though I have tried Winstrol V in the past when I used to get it easy when I trained race horses. Much harder to get these days. Water based, very clean, does a great job. Steroids have gotten a very bad rap in the media. Most are very beneficial when used properly.Married Buried said:
Roids are easy to get.. you get them from the same sites as the liquid viagra.. those research chemical sites.cordoncordon said: