"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i was never meant for high school

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i dotn think i was meant for high school, the enviroment. the ppl, i got alot of friends but i dont choose to get involve deeply with them, i always hang out with ppl outside of school, ppl that dont go to my school. i find high school is to immature and i matured to fast. because the way i've grown up. I've been put to the test to many times and at a young age. seen too much, more than my eyes can bare.
just recently, in my 12th grade, i decided to get more involve into school, cuz its my last year, but i just realize how patheic it is. the girls are so dumb, immature, just PLAIN DUMB. my head hurts from a conversation with them. the guys try to hard to get their image up. tryin to hustle things. tryin to look like a mack. everyone **** talks SO much,
i got the nicest car in the whole school, i got hydros and ****. and ppl cant talking about me, ppl even **** talk and make up romours about me but i dont let that **** phaze

is it me or does this occur to many others?
my past two girls were two years older than me, i was always into the mature b1tches, it turned me on, the way they dressed etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HandyAndy said:
its your last year and you out of there....just wait
thats the only way i see it but i dont understand, how can a society get so low? now a days kids carry mace. it has been years since i've seen a clean one on one fight. no one can go out without their bear mace. and knives.
i just cannot relate! i dont know whats going in their heads
 

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Poor you, you are too popular. It must be terrible.
 

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Your last year of school, is supposed to be the best year. I didn't listen to the teachers, read newspapers in the middle of class, went on vacations for three or four days without going to school, and was late almost every day.

You should loosen up a bit, and learn to live a little bit.

And yes, high school kids for the most part are dumb as sh!t. I dealt with it too just like EVERY0NE ELSE has on this forum.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I feel ya kuta, I'm in your same situation. For me its a little different though, I'm "friends" with just about everyone, but I don't know if some are s*** talking me or not. The junior and senior girls are all w****s, some of the popular ones started to wear clothing that looked like those of a hooker, and all of them started to catch on. I pretty much have to date the younger girls or girls from outside my school.

But man don't worry about it, use the girls for DJ practice if you want. You'll never see their skanky *sses again...you should aim for college, they probably won't make it or they'll go to some s***ty one.
 

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miba said:
Poor you, you are too popular. It must be terrible.
lol are you tryin to stir **** up?
 

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sexy_kuta said:
thats the only way i see it but i dont understand, how can a society get so low? now a days kids carry mace. it has been years since i've seen a clean one on one fight. no one can go out without their bear mace. and knives.
i just cannot relate! i dont know whats going in their heads
They are just immature, im 15 but im pretty mature around school, i see all the kinds of ppl at my school that your talking about, theyre just not being themselves at all
 

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I came from a ghetto environment and moved into a white/asian dominant school. I just didn't roll with the crowd and mainly hanged out with college and other people from other high schools. Nothing to really trip about, I still enjoyed senior year though, didn't do sh1t and I still got my diploma.
 

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Don't worry about other guys trying to act hard. Don't worry about the other sh!t people got. For the "immature" girls... Those are the ones you fvck. Yeah, I never liked high school much either. But, I did graduate; made friends and laid girls.

Make it what you want kid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you're stuck there for 6 hours a day, learn to deal with it. You can piss and moan all you want about what life throws at you, or you can make the best of it
 

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clix said:
you're stuck there for 6 hours a day, learn to deal with it. You can piss and moan all you want about what life throws at you, or you can make the best of it
oh i aint complaining just tryin to get a dicussion going on.
i was always ahead of most kids. got most of my credits. filled my time table. so the last two grades, 11/12 i always had like 2-3 classes a semster. went to class, got my **** down then went home. never involved into the social life of high school, i refused but this year im like what the heck u only go to school once so i tried gettin more involved but not knowing what i would find out.
 

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Get used to it. People are still going to me knobs after high school. Sure most people eventually mature but the aproval seeking will always be there. Just make the most of it cos when you finish you wont be able to go back. Sounds like your thinking too much. Just go with it.
 
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