"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was looking tonight at the girls going out to town (slutty dressed girls)

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Chamber36 said:
dude I went to Newcastle in february. Those student *****es are crazy. Go to the club and ask if u can take a picture with the girls. Make sure u get some real slutty girls though. I did that just to show my friends how slutty they all were. I kept escalating with different girls groping tits and ass on camera. Was pretty cool. Lateron this 14yr old sucked my ****! so it was a win-win situation!
wtf

Newcaste england? I stay nearby...lol...I went once for a night out lots of fights also lol.

NEver got a 14 year old suk my **** thoug damn lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Social_Leper said:
Not really. Women can get sex far easier than men can. The power of selection and the fact that maybe the top 10% of women (the ones we want) are being chased by 99% of guys.

Last night I went out clubing and I witnessed more than 5 guys approach this girl on the dance floor in the space of about 20 minutes. So conservatively she was probably approached by 10 guys that night. This is typical for many hot women on just one night out. This is typical for most women, particularly those dressing provocatively. In the face of these stupefying odds how can one expect to get laid consistently unless you're in the top 10% of guys. The truth is you can't.

This board has opened my eyes and taught me things about women I'd never have known otherwise or would have had to learn through painstaking experience. This board exists to show men that they have the potential to reach that top 10% and offers a direction.
Now how are ALL of us going to reach that top 10%? If ALL of us reached that point then wouldn't it no longer be a top 10%? & does that mean that we'd all have to share the same chicks?

I'd say a lot of us have the potential to be better but I bet there's very few here on the board who can or will actually end up in the elite 10%. Our limitations & circumstances will cut some of us off at the legs & weed us out.
 

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Maybe but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try. I'd rather die than resign myself to a life of mediocrity. There will always be lazy, unambitious men content with their current situation, even if its pumping gas by day and jacking off 5 times a week by night.

Thats the whole point in competition. There will forever be winners and losers. If you think you have certain natural disadvantages (small height, weedy frame, a stutter) then your job is to stick to fingers up at mother nature and move forward anyway.

One of my favourite quotes:
“For me life is continuously being hungry. The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer."
Arnold Schwarzenegger

The joy isn't in reaching the elite and then getting the chicks but in the journey towards that goal. Any girl that takes your fancy is simply along for the ride.
Agreed but notice I said most of us have the potential to be better. I never once said we should just sit here as we are on a forum whining about women. & I would advise everyone to shoot as high as they can HOWEVER realistically only a few of us will reach that elite point.
 

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Guys guys...we are losing the main point here. I'm going to jump off of what Rockarolla said. At the end of the day unless you want to bang a huge number of women....and do not care what they offer inside by all means go ahead and get caught up in the ***** uniform.

yet, think about it like this...you eventually want to find a woman to connect with, this whole site is about improving yourself, and getting better with women.

Apart of getting better with women is relating to them on a level beyond the ***** uniform and what they look like. At the end of the day you want someone that you click with, and so do they.

basically what they wear is of little concern to you, try to get to the deep root of the girl find out what she is about....change your outlook.
 
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Guys guys...we are losing the main point here. I'm going to jump off of what Rockarolla said. At the end of the day unless you want to bang a huge number of women....and do not care what they offer inside by all means go ahead and get caught up in the ***** uniform.

yet, think about it like this...you eventually want to find a woman to connect with, this whole site is about improving yourself, and getting better with women.

Apart of getting better with women is relating to them on a level beyond the ***** uniform and what they look like. At the end of the day you want someone that you click with, and so do they.

basically what they wear is of little concern to you, try to get to the deep root of the girl find out what she is about....change your outlook.
thats a good overall point.

however, I am very unsociable. So for me a female is just reuqired to look good to get me off.

Im not at any type of stage where I want to connect with a girl on any type of higher level or any that stuff lol.

I want to get attractive girls and do things to them to pleasure myslef.

I also belveive I have aspergers and find conversation, socialising and eye contact very very hard with most people and especially females.

I just get erections real easily and stuff. Like standing near or looking at females that attract me. I always get sex thoguhts around any decent looking girl. There really is no social aspect to my life as socially/mentally I am way out there!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't need to be top 10% to have sex with those girls. It's all in your head, and this 10% crap is not in mine. Women are easy to get, it is the ones who are emotionally and psychologically healthy who are a challenge. The attractive women that are not only nice to look at but also to have around.

What do you prefer? A hot woman who will have sex with you or an attractive woman who will cook for you, take care of you, give you sex ANYTIME you want (within reason of course), someone who actually enjoys things you do and sees you as more than a walking bag of money.

Unless you're really desperate (in which case you're not a DJ), most of you guys will select the second option.
 

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Robyn923b said:
Don't need to be top 10% to have sex with those girls. It's all in your head, and this 10% crap is not in mine. Women are easy to get, it is the ones who are emotionally and psychologically healthy who are a challenge. The attractive women that are not only nice to look at but also to have around.

What do you prefer? A hot woman who will have sex with you or an attractive woman who will cook for you, take care of you, give you sex ANYTIME you want (within reason of course), someone who actually enjoys things you do and sees you as more than a walking bag of money.

Unless you're really desperate (in which case you're not a DJ), most of you guys will select the second option.
I can do those things for myself. Not every guy on earth desires a nursemaid. I really just want to bang girls I'm attracted whenever I feel like it. For the most part I rather be single & enjoy hobbies/interests.
 

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Kirro said:
I can do those things for myself. Not every guy on earth desires a nursemaid. I really just want to bang girls I'm attracted whenever I feel like it. For the most part I rather be single & enjoy hobbies/interests.
That's cool, we don't all have the same criteria for girls. What brings us together is our mentalities and game. We are beyond AFC's that have no idea how to deal with women.
 

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That's cool, we don't all have the same criteria for girls. What brings us together is our mentalities and game. We are beyond AFC's that have no idea how to deal with women.
Agreed. For me its just the way I was raised, I'm just a far more efficient being working solo.
 

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uhh correction to OP

i think 20-24 is sluttiest.

i just got into college and all i gota say is i dont remember HS girls being this crazy and some are down to do stuff..like too down
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Social_Leper said:
Not really. Women can get sex far easier than men can. The power of selection and the fact that maybe the top 10% of women (the ones we want) are being chased by 99% of guys.

Last night I went out clubing and I witnessed more than 5 guys approach this girl on the dance floor in the space of about 20 minutes. So conservatively she was probably approached by 10 guys that night. This is typical for many hot women on just one night out. This is typical for most women, particularly those dressing provocatively. In the face of these stupefying odds how can one expect to get laid consistently unless you're in the top 10% of guys. The truth is you can't.

This board has opened my eyes and taught me things about women I'd never have known otherwise or would have had to learn through painstaking experience. This board exists to show men that they have the potential to reach that top 10% and offers a direction.
Even the fat, ugly, and plain Janes think they're entitled to a high status male! 10% of the guys do 90% of the f**king. A girl doesn't need to dress provocatively to get a man's attention. There are so many desperate males in this world, and the growing number of PUA material books and guys using them doesn't help.
 

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I agree with alot of the other comments regarding attention. The girls love when a guy pays attention to them and gives out her number she feels good. Then when you text her she says she dosn't remember you or som bs. Again making her feel better about herself that you were interested enough in her to text her. The slutty outfits just help increase chance of guys looking at them and approaching. They also act as if they are dtf by dirty dancing ect which makes guys even more interested which makes the girls feel sexy.
I think perhaps they are looking for that one guy but they know they are not going to find him in the club so they just play hard to get.
Now we just need a tactic to beat this mind set. Any ideas??
 

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Slick Rick-NZ said:
I agree with alot of the other comments regarding attention. The girls love when a guy pays attention to them and gives out her number she feels good. Then when you text her she says she dosn't remember you or som bs. Again making her feel better about herself that you were interested enough in her to text her. The slutty outfits just help increase chance of guys looking at them and approaching. They also act as if they are dtf by dirty dancing ect which makes guys even more interested which makes the girls feel sexy.
I think perhaps they are looking for that one guy but they know they are not going to find him in the club so they just play hard to get.
Now we just need a tactic to beat this mind set. Any ideas??
It all comes back to...

-Getting in your best shape
-Finding a style(s) that suits you
-Find a good look for your face..clean shaven/scruff or full bread or some variation there of...
-Wear your hair in a way that best suits you, clean cut, short, medium, long, very long...whatever
-TALK TO PEOPLE & develop social savvy
-Have stuff you enjoy outside of females so if & when you get rejected/flaked on/BS'd that you have a fall back

We can sit here & analysis & discuss while collectively going azure in the face or we can go out & constantly test ourselves & grow. You see a chick that catches your fancy, say the first thing that pops into your head no matter how AFC, cheesy, corny or rude & just wing it. Take your lumps & evolve.
 
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