Slick Rick-NZ said:
I agree with alot of the other comments regarding attention. The girls love when a guy pays attention to them and gives out her number she feels good. Then when you text her she says she dosn't remember you or som bs. Again making her feel better about herself that you were interested enough in her to text her. The slutty outfits just help increase chance of guys looking at them and approaching. They also act as if they are dtf by dirty dancing ect which makes guys even more interested which makes the girls feel sexy.
I think perhaps they are looking for that one guy but they know they are not going to find him in the club so they just play hard to get.
Now we just need a tactic to beat this mind set. Any ideas??
It all comes back to...
-Getting in your best shape
-Finding a style(s) that suits you
-Find a good look for your face..clean shaven/scruff or full bread or some variation there of...
-Wear your hair in a way that best suits you, clean cut, short, medium, long, very long...whatever
-TALK TO PEOPLE & develop social savvy
-Have stuff you enjoy outside of females so if & when you get rejected/flaked on/BS'd that you have a fall back
We can sit here & analysis & discuss while collectively going azure in the face or we can go out & constantly test ourselves & grow. You see a chick that catches your fancy, say the first thing that pops into your head no matter how AFC, cheesy, corny or rude & just wing it. Take your lumps & evolve.