"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was In Car with MILF

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so i was driving her back home after dinner and movie. Then she says

"hey, i appreciate what you did for me. Ask me anything and I'll do it"

I just said "I know you will" (probably a lame response) she knows im seeing another chick btw..

and just continued driving..

nope nothing happened at the end of the night. a bj wouldve nice
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJnoob said:
so i was driving her back home after dinner and movie. Then she says

"hey, i appreciate what you did for me. Ask me anything and I'll do it"

.... a bj would be nice
should have been your answer
 

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It actually depends on her her voice tone...sometime when a girl does something nice for me I playfully say "oh I wanna marry you".

So OP it depends how she told you that, anyway boldness is never a bad idea when dealing with women you just dated, better exagerate on the boldness side than in the politeness one.
That lame line got you nowhere, the request for a bj would have lead you to a bj or a slap, both better options than nothing.
 

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so its okay to say like that direct to women? i thought normally women would just unzip your pants and do the rest..

the first time she asked me that in the car (during daytime), i said.. "yeah some oral would be nice" then she just laughed
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well no need to go in for the kill like that. You can use some sexual tension for your advantage. I would just maybe take that opportunity to do her some kino. Like, touch her arm and give her EC and say "Oh, that's sweet of you. Yes, I want you to show me [whatever place you are going to]!".

By the way, what was her age bro?
 
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Dude, I once banged this 45 year old milf in the forest after getting her drunk and practically cold out. Milf's are nasty. I can understand banging a nice looking milf in her late 20s early 30s just like on porn sites, but an old ho, with old skin, ewww. Just my 2 cents.
 

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betheman said:
should have been your answer
/fvcking thread. Absolute gold.

A lot of people on this site focus and worry too much about being perfect, getting the right body, ultimate confidence, ****y and smart comebacks and great answers, but none of that sh!t matters.

Being sexual that's all that matters. If you have your sh!t together and you talk sexual or ask for sexual favors, you'd be surprised how often they'd actually do it.

Straight up next time that happens say "A BJ would be nice". Worst case scenario she looks at you weird, best case scenario, I'd leave it to your imagination.

Sometimes when you get that gut feeling that tells you saying something sexual would be really inappropriate or that she might reject you or shoot you down JUST DO IT. Fear is leading you to the right direction. Like the first time you ride a rollercoaster.... at the top it looks scary as fvck but when you ride it its the most exciting thing in your life. Likewise you might get anxiety or scared of taking things sexual with a new girl but realize you are at the top of a rollercoaster... Might as well ride it instead of turning back and wondering what if, no?
 

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backseatjuan said:
Dude, I once banged this 45 year old milf in the forest after getting her drunk and practically cold out. Milf's are nasty. I can understand banging a nice looking milf in her late 20s early 30s just like on porn sites, but an old ho, with old skin, ewww. Just my 2 cents.
Judge nismo primarily brings milfs into chambers! The oldest was 66!

Anyways, you should have had the sexual tension rising from the start. It sounds like you wanted her to make a move. But you failed to initiate.

Sometimes, being forward and taking initiatives is a great thing. And It sounds like you would've gotten some had you made a move.

Bummer.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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