"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

i was hit on by a MAN tonight... i am pissed

Thread starter white_hype
Start date Apr 17, 2004

LuvMyArmyMan

Master Don Juan

Apr 18, 2004

what i'd like to know why that is viewed as a come-on?? the guy asked him if he was greek, and in a frat. So what? the douchebag was probably wearing his letters at the time.

To me, a come-on would be like "hey youre cute, when were done in the bathroom lets hit up the dance floor you sexy thang"

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.