"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was checking out some girl oriented forums

lakeshore

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out of curiosity.

And guess what? They talk about all the same crap thats
talked about here when it comes to the opposite sex. All the same frustrations, insecurities, etc..

Pretty funny actually.

Although we blow them away when it comes to general self/life improvement.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chromeo

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should post some conversations their having, would be interesting to read
 

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Does he really like me or is he playing - Would this text make you interested?

rocknrolldarlin (Age:18 to 24) When: An hour ago
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I've been seeing a guy from work for a few weeks now- going out on Wednesdays. But I'm afraid he's just using me for some fun. We pulled on our second date and he kissed up my neck and face and plays with my hair and constantly strokes my arm, and when we kiss, up and down my leg. He recently suggested that we should spend more time together than our 2-3 hour wed night outs and pubs etc. (he pulled me in the pub at the table loll)

So we went shopping (clothes) for a wee bit, then got a pizza and we went back to his (first time) we watched a movie and cause there was no sofa we had to like on the bed to watch the television. , he kept his arm round me most of the time, and would turn his head and start pulling me again, he has a thing for my legs I think though! Like he constantly strokes them up and down and my bum, he can't keep his hands off that! But I'm not sure if it was too early for that?
he pulled me in for cuddles and even pulled me on top of him for a cuddle, which was pretty weird, but nice, and we kissed allot. However when we were kissing his "wandering hands" went higher and higher up my leg and I think he was going for the 'dodgy' area down there if you know what I mean, so pushed his hand away, he didn't seem to have mind though.

He also briefly introduced me to his mum and dad, which I think is promising? However I just feel something isn't right, he's slow and texting back and hasn't said anything about me being his girlfriend yet, and has mentioned meeting up at the weekend, but it never falls through... What do you think?

So to try make him "wanting more" (and think about me) I sent a few teasing texts!

we were talking about our day and I said I had been shopping and got clothes and a bikini, and he texted back "bikini sounds interesting, bring it up next time and give me a show! ;) x"
Instead of dropping at his feet I was like, "u have to work hard for those kind privileges with me ;) x"

He then replied (quicker) "oh is that rite? You'll need to work hard if you want anything off me miss! ;)" (which I think is weird...Loll)

So I just ignored that and was like "We'll see.. Your only getting French kisses just now, you see, I have a point system, the more points you get .. The better ;)"

he then replied (even quicker) "How many points do I have just now?" and I was like "that's a secret, for me to know and for you to find out ;)"
He then asked how to get points (again quicker) and basically said your the guy, got find out what I like!

A couple days later at work he brought it up and was asking about how many points he had, so I think that could of been a good idea?


What do you think about the texts?
Is he just using me, or like me?


THANK YOU!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Falcon25

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You can learn a lot by studying the enemies tactics........haha
 

kingsam

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that girls coversation is a perfect example of why being a challenge works...they cant quite work out where they stand with you...keeps them on their toes...they constantly think about you = higher interst level in you!
 

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lakeshore said:
i was on girlsaskguys.com
Most of the posters on those sites are boys. Most post as girls though. The problem with you fellows is simple. You will believe anything. Talk about gullible.
 
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