funny.
but, I wasn’t being sarcastic. (and this is nothing to you white_hype...rather, a comment in general as to why posts about learning to become a man seem to be diminishing while pua-ism is on the rise)
I think this board is starting to reek of Pua-ism. I don’t particularly like frivolous, and I doubt he particularly likes me either. But, I think this was a good post.
The reason this site is different from others is because Sosuave is about becoming a man, and hence attracting women by being a man. Too many posts and posters lately have been relying far too much on “technique.” Truly accept and love yourself, and be comfortable being your true self around women, and women will approach you, and you will do much better around them, than if you were to treat seduction like rocket science. Yes, be your ****ing self. It is not easy; just because it is easy to say, it does not mean it is easy. It took me over a year, don’t expect being yourself to happen overnight.
I see it all to often. Very solid posts such as this one, called
Self Acceptance = Love, get barely any replies, because people do not understand this. Most people here think that is too much work, and immerse themselves in studying seduction. If you work on finding yourself, stuff falls into place. Then threads like
MSN: "15 Smooth Lines" get 16 replies.
I get the idea people just like to sit and giggle over little sh!t like pick-up lines. Why do you make threads on “worst pick-up lines” who freaking cares? Pick-up lines are lame and you shouldn’t be using them. Real men don’t need that sh!t. Get some goals, and see the bigger picture. Life is so much easier when you have a few goals, and focus on them. If you truly focus, and achieve discipline, nothing else will matter. I think there are still great posts here, but too many have lost focus.
Yes, this post has nothing to do with seduction directly, and yes it was written by the sappy, lovey-dovey frivolous who likes to cry with his girlfriend, but at least he knows how to accept himself and be happy with life. If you can discover such charisma within yourself, you won’t need more than 85% of the “tips” here. Just be confident and charismatic, and smile. You’ll make people around you feel good.
Focus. This is a good post. If you don’t get it, then you have need to work on yourself.
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