"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want your best advice on meeting women...

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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spend all your free time with groups of people
work on yourself to lead a group

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have power over your mind.
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doback said:
I want your best advice on meeting women... What worked for you?
 

Kevin Feng

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From what it sounds like, you're just starting out in the game and if that's the case, a good place to begin your journey is with cold approach pick up.

When we all got on the show, this is exactly what we started out with, we started with canned openers and routines and field tested them on cold approach targets in bars/clubs.

Honestly, I find cold approach pick up the most difficult form of game, master this and you'll be able to do anything else.

Happy Hunting, here's an excellent article I found extremely useful when I started the game, begin with the approach and build off that.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html

-Kevin
 

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Join a bunch of groups, even stuff you don't know about or like, like gardening. This way, if you gotta drive a ways to it, you'll at least LEARN something WHILE you meet women or their mothers, sisters, brothers, fathers, who can introduce you to them, give you their email, phone number, etc etc. This will broaden (no pun intended) your horizons (no pun intended) by giving you experience in all realms of life and people. The more interactions with ALL types of people, the more chances of finding a woman who wants to jump your bones on a whim.
 
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