"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I want your best advice on meeting women...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spend all your free time with groups of people
work on yourself to lead a group

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have power over your mind.
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doback said:
I want your best advice on meeting women... What worked for you?
 

Kevin Feng

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From what it sounds like, you're just starting out in the game and if that's the case, a good place to begin your journey is with cold approach pick up.

When we all got on the show, this is exactly what we started out with, we started with canned openers and routines and field tested them on cold approach targets in bars/clubs.

Honestly, I find cold approach pick up the most difficult form of game, master this and you'll be able to do anything else.

Happy Hunting, here's an excellent article I found extremely useful when I started the game, begin with the approach and build off that.

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/05/impact-approach-30-seconds-to-make-it.html

-Kevin
 

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Join a bunch of groups, even stuff you don't know about or like, like gardening. This way, if you gotta drive a ways to it, you'll at least LEARN something WHILE you meet women or their mothers, sisters, brothers, fathers, who can introduce you to them, give you their email, phone number, etc etc. This will broaden (no pun intended) your horizons (no pun intended) by giving you experience in all realms of life and people. The more interactions with ALL types of people, the more chances of finding a woman who wants to jump your bones on a whim.
 
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