"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I want you to tell me what to do

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Rubato

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It doesn't get much clearer than that.

Maybe sometimes this stuff doesn't quite sink in until you see it in action, but this is just the way it works. I was working on a project for my genetics class with a pretty good looking girl today and I as we were finishing up, the last thing to do was figure out who was going to present what portion of the project. And I really didn't care either way, so I told her to figure it out and send me an email. And she acted unsettled after that. I turned off her computer. And she actually ended up turning it back on and straight up asking me if I would tell her what to do.

In her words, I had been very "in charge" throughout the project and she had really like me "telling her what to do". And she actually told me she was unhappy when I stopped telling her what to do. She went on to tell me this was one of the best projects she'd ever worked on becuase I was so easy to work with. And I wasn't easy to work with... there was no working with me. I told her what to do. And she did it. I told her where to be and when. And she was there.

So, there's your lesson. It's very simple:

Be dominant.

Be assertive.

Have viewpoints and opinions.

Lead strongly.

And by all means, tell the girl what to do!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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way to go champ! I got the same thing at work where I got to teach a new female the ropes. It's good practice to keep my game consistently alpha. I get to order her around and stuff, and I can tell she likes it. It's really funny, because we're in a natural leader-follower dynamic. Kino is easy, she brushes her breasts against me and what-not, and giggles.

Too bad it would be a horrible idea to get involved with chicks from work. Still good fun and practice though.
 
Masculinity

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Rubato said:
So, there's your lesson. It's very simple:

Be dominant. However, don't be domineering.

Be assertive. And learn to admit you are wrong when caught by inserting a ridiculous comment and being fun about it

Have viewpoints and opinions. Don't become anyone's puppet in hopes of getting laid

Lead strongly. You are at the front of a wolf pack. Lead with style. Respect people and they will respect you much more and look up to you. The leader gets to mate with the females. The betas follow like the rest of the pack.

And by all means, tell the girl what to do!
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You will be surprised at how obedient women can be, simply by having the guts to take the initiative.

Good stuff OP.
 
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