"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want you to tell me what to do

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Rubato

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It doesn't get much clearer than that.

Maybe sometimes this stuff doesn't quite sink in until you see it in action, but this is just the way it works. I was working on a project for my genetics class with a pretty good looking girl today and I as we were finishing up, the last thing to do was figure out who was going to present what portion of the project. And I really didn't care either way, so I told her to figure it out and send me an email. And she acted unsettled after that. I turned off her computer. And she actually ended up turning it back on and straight up asking me if I would tell her what to do.

In her words, I had been very "in charge" throughout the project and she had really like me "telling her what to do". And she actually told me she was unhappy when I stopped telling her what to do. She went on to tell me this was one of the best projects she'd ever worked on becuase I was so easy to work with. And I wasn't easy to work with... there was no working with me. I told her what to do. And she did it. I told her where to be and when. And she was there.

So, there's your lesson. It's very simple:

Be dominant.

Be assertive.

Have viewpoints and opinions.

Lead strongly.

And by all means, tell the girl what to do!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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way to go champ! I got the same thing at work where I got to teach a new female the ropes. It's good practice to keep my game consistently alpha. I get to order her around and stuff, and I can tell she likes it. It's really funny, because we're in a natural leader-follower dynamic. Kino is easy, she brushes her breasts against me and what-not, and giggles.

Too bad it would be a horrible idea to get involved with chicks from work. Still good fun and practice though.
 
Masculinity

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Rubato said:
So, there's your lesson. It's very simple:

Be dominant. However, don't be domineering.

Be assertive. And learn to admit you are wrong when caught by inserting a ridiculous comment and being fun about it

Have viewpoints and opinions. Don't become anyone's puppet in hopes of getting laid

Lead strongly. You are at the front of a wolf pack. Lead with style. Respect people and they will respect you much more and look up to you. The leader gets to mate with the females. The betas follow like the rest of the pack.

And by all means, tell the girl what to do!
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You will be surprised at how obedient women can be, simply by having the guts to take the initiative.

Good stuff OP.
 
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