"i want to wait till we are married"

[Desdinova]

Why don't you come to a comprimise? Have her for love and attention, and find yourself a fvck buddy.

When she says "I want to wait until marriage", tell her "Well I don't, so maybe I should get something on the side until we're married". It'll go over like a lead balloon, but you should be able to get an answer. Either she'll agree to the fvck buddy, or she'll think you should break up. Take whichever option benefits you.

After all, if you believe in sex before marriage and she doesn't, then you're not a good match. To make a LTR or a marriage work, you need to have common beliefs, morals, and goals. Ask anybody who's married to someone who's involved in a different (or lack of) religion than them.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

NEXT.

It's not worth the headache. Any sex you have will be uninspired and coerced now. It's obligation prompted by a threat, not inspired chemical passion. And just for sake of argument, assume you had an LTR with her or married her in the future; she will always resent you for blackmailing her emotionally - whether that has legitimacy or not, that's her position - and she'll always have that over you. You simply cannot negotiate genuine desire. You'd have a better sexual experience with a prostitute now.

 

[Desdinova]

I agree with you 100% Rollo. But if he's anything like me, he wants to fvck this piece of ass before the whole thing is over. I'm also not going to advise him to marry this woman (as indicated by my last post).

The problem with the actual act of sex is she's dangling it in front of him like a goddam carrot. Everytime she dangles it and he makes a reach, she's inching closer to marriage. She's using sex to get what she wants. He can reverse it by taking the power away from her, by letting her know that he can find another source for sex - and he should GO THROUGH WITH IT. If the woman realizes that the man can and will get sex from elsewhere, she will have no power over him.

 

[DonGorgon]

Let her go now that red flag is too big... she will be using sex a s a tool..

 

[backbreaker]

Sweet Mother Mary!

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

When a woman makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous, chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation. It's sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. A woman who wants to ƒuck you will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, ƒuck you like a porn star and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife/GF comes home early from work - women who want to ƒuck will find a way to ƒuck. The girl who tells you she wants a relationship first or "just isn't comfortable with you yet" is the same girl who ƒucked the "totally hot guy" in the foam cannon party in Cancun with her girlfriends on spring break half an hour after meeting him.

If a girl is that into you she'll ƒuck regardless of ASD or having her friends in the room videotaping it at a frat party. All women can be sexual, you just have to be the right guy to bring it out in them, and this happens before you go back to her place. If you have to plead your case cuddling and spooning on the bed or getting the occasional peck on the cheek, you need to go back to square one and start fresh.

i was thinking of rollo's rule as soon as I read this post.

here is my point of view. there is nothing wrong with with not having sex for religous reasons. none whatsoever. to each his own.

the problem comes into place when you think you are doing the noble thing by holding off to protect someone else's religous thoughts, if that makes any sense.

if you thought you wanted to wait until marriage, you would not have made this post. ovbiously you want to get laid. there is nothing wrong with that.

the problem lies in the fact that you WANT to get laid, she doesn't want to. It doesn't matter WHY she doesn't want to, either it's becuase of religion or she is lying and she just isnt' into you. but regardless, the sex is not worth the wait.

If it were up to me, you need to find someone more compatable with what you are looking for

 

[pvf94]

She gave it up today.

 

[scottfall]

w00t

Good for u man. Never listen to that sh!t.

-4(of 10)

 

[mintxx]

She better be able to back that up, I'm talking a cvnt that leaks beer and titties that taste like cheese and crackers and maybe whistle a nice tune......Get the fvck outta here.

I dont know whats more sad, this b!tch's delusions of grandeur and outdated ruse to use her puzzy as bait or that you have been with her for 4 and a half months.

What a pack of losers.

just quotin this so you can read it again. truth