"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

Where's the best place to start?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by yojimbo
I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

Where's the best place to start?
you are needy, spiteful and completely AFC.
 

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This site is not for you bacause we actually like girls and not just want to dump them. Mods should ban you and the reason that you want to seduce her and dump her shows us that you are just jealous and your piss off at the world and you should get help and start smiling:D . o yeah FCUK YOU and GoodNight.
 
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Originally posted by phatboi408
This site is not for you bacause we actually like girls and not just want to dump them. Mods should ban you and the reason that you want to seduce her and dump her shows us that you are just jealous and your piss off at the world and you should get help and start smiling:D . o yeah FCUK YOU and GoodNight.
Lmao.
 

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This is Don Juan not cry babies isn't it?

You're all liars if this idea has not crossed your minds at some point.

Has anybody tried the Dangerous Liasons approach?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That definition says nothing about seducing a woman in order to dump her.

For most of the guys here, the fun is in the chase. Most of the guys here don't go out of their way to enjoy humiliating and hurting somebody else.

You need to get past that. Really.
 

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Originally posted by yojimbo
I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

Where's the best place to start?
Oh well we cant all be normal.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Anyone wonder if posts like this are written by noobs that have heard snippets about Style's book and don't really understand what all of this is about?

Just curious....
 

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Well for starters, you're clearly an AFC. No doubt in my mind.

You're jealous, you're puttin her on a pedestal because you think her ***** is really THAT worth it, and you're not havin fun.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You should question why you feel the need to seduce someone not for sex, but to hurt them. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss to read the destructive effects of seducing when it becomes about power rather than sexual pleasure.

-Dan
 

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Originally posted by yojimbo
I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

Where's the best place to start?
Whose been burnt by a girl? *Everyone here will raise their hand*Good, now for everyone that is a player or wants to do what yojimbo (cool name by the way from Final Fantasy I believe) wants to do. I suggest you look back at how you were burnt and realize something. You are putting the girl through the same pain that you were going through. Do you realize that you are hurting another person emotionally and they put their b!tch shields up higher then before? This hurts other guys chances and makes women mean and bitter toward other guys. I know we complain about women like this all the time but 99% of the time they have a reason for being bitter in the first place.

BTW yojimbo this is a perfect reason why women become bitter of men.
 

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Yes, it's crossed my mind to try to win an unavailable chick I had a crush on, at least several times. When I was a complete n00b and could only dream of a hot chick. I presume it happened to most of us at a sertain point between kindergarten and high school. But to seduce a chick just to dump her?

I second Spirit Fingers' suggestion.
 
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