"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

Where's the best place to start?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by yojimbo
I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

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you are needy, spiteful and completely AFC.
 
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This site is not for you bacause we actually like girls and not just want to dump them. Mods should ban you and the reason that you want to seduce her and dump her shows us that you are just jealous and your piss off at the world and you should get help and start smiling:D . o yeah FCUK YOU and GoodNight.
 
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Originally posted by phatboi408
This site is not for you bacause we actually like girls and not just want to dump them. Mods should ban you and the reason that you want to seduce her and dump her shows us that you are just jealous and your piss off at the world and you should get help and start smiling:D . o yeah FCUK YOU and GoodNight.
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Lmao.
 
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This is Don Juan not cry babies isn't it?

You're all liars if this idea has not crossed your minds at some point.

Has anybody tried the Dangerous Liasons approach?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That definition says nothing about seducing a woman in order to dump her.

For most of the guys here, the fun is in the chase. Most of the guys here don't go out of their way to enjoy humiliating and hurting somebody else.

You need to get past that. Really.
 
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Originally posted by yojimbo
I want to seduce a girl away from her boyfriend and then dump her.

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Oh well we cant all be normal.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Anyone wonder if posts like this are written by noobs that have heard snippets about Style's book and don't really understand what all of this is about?

Just curious....
 
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Well for starters, you're clearly an AFC. No doubt in my mind.

You're jealous, you're puttin her on a pedestal because you think her ***** is really THAT worth it, and you're not havin fun.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You should question why you feel the need to seduce someone not for sex, but to hurt them. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss to read the destructive effects of seducing when it becomes about power rather than sexual pleasure.

-Dan
 
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Originally posted by yojimbo
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Whose been burnt by a girl? *Everyone here will raise their hand*Good, now for everyone that is a player or wants to do what yojimbo (cool name by the way from Final Fantasy I believe) wants to do. I suggest you look back at how you were burnt and realize something. You are putting the girl through the same pain that you were going through. Do you realize that you are hurting another person emotionally and they put their b!tch shields up higher then before? This hurts other guys chances and makes women mean and bitter toward other guys. I know we complain about women like this all the time but 99% of the time they have a reason for being bitter in the first place.

BTW yojimbo this is a perfect reason why women become bitter of men.
 
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Yes, it's crossed my mind to try to win an unavailable chick I had a crush on, at least several times. When I was a complete n00b and could only dream of a hot chick. I presume it happened to most of us at a sertain point between kindergarten and high school. But to seduce a chick just to dump her?

I second Spirit Fingers' suggestion.
 
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