I want to say something....

[Captain]

that's just it. I have been unable to jump in and get my feet wet. It's for lots of reasons,and,probably false beliefs. Also,after having read about alot on here,I think I have misunderstood alot about what you say about women and getting out of the matrix.

I mean,I want to do all of this stuff,all these goals,career,family,house,etc, but can't even find a way to start. I mean,esp in terms of going out and trying to get laid,there has long been something holding me back,and has now turned into an anxiety.

The whole point is that you need to start. Without practice, all the reading in the world won't help you.

 

[SobchakSecurity]

That's been it. I don't know where to start. I don't know whether to start small,or feel I should be ahead,etc.

 

[Mars]

That's been it. I don't know where to start. I don't know whether to start small,or feel I should be ahead,etc.

People have told you before to simply just go out and say hi to one random girl. You know where to start, stop lying to yourself.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Q: How many CapedCrusaders does it take to screw in a light bulb?

A: Who the hell knows, they're in the corner mumbling to themselves.

 

[darkstarrr]

CapedCrusader is really a prophet who is teaching us a lesson in Psychology.

When I have infant children and they learn swears or say/do things they shouldn't - I will not show them an intense reaction or too much attention. If I do, they will learn that how to create reactions from pressing the buttons that I helped program to program.

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