You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
I didn't say I was going to bang her
Wait....you dont want to bang her, you just want to see how far you can "mentally" seduce this woman
Thats sounds almost as ridiculous, futile and gay as that last thread you started where you claimed to have only chick friends. Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You bet your ass I am when I read something stupid.
Why? I still dont get the point.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you want to experience the game on a different level, then line-up a MILF target who`s got her life together and is being sought after, not some messed-up woman who`ll only draw you into her ongoing misery. Which do you think would be the bigger conquest?Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
I didn't say I was going to bang her
I can't believe someone called me an AFC
I want to have more of a mental seduction with this lady; I want to get into her head.
Any guy can go out and **** several girls, but I want to experience the game on a different level.
This might be the wrong forum for this post. I'll head over to the art of seduction forum.
What is up with all the haters?
Thanks.