"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm 18 and i was thinking about it and i want to move out. idk where i want to go, nor do i care. im thinking about just going where life leads me right now. im in school to be an entrepreneur and i have the spirit that goes with it. i know i can make it one way or another on my own...

but ive always liked to ask advice before i do something, so what do you think about that statement?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Arizona iced tea said:
I'm 18 and i was thinking about it and i want to move out. idk where i want to go, nor do i care. im thinking about just going where life leads me right now. im in school to be an entrepreneur and i have the spirit that goes with it. i know i can make it one way or another on my own...

but ive always liked to ask advice before i do something, so what do you think about that statement?
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Give us some more info. When you say you're in school, do you mean a four-year university? If so, then yes, you should definitely move out and get into the dorms. By far the best social networking opportunity on campus is being a freshman in the freshmen dorms.

If not, getting an apartment isn't a bad idea, but make sure you got a stable income first, because when you move out you are on your own.
 
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im at a community college right now... i was going to stay in a dorm at a university, but decided to keep the cost down. i figure i will finish a year and then decide what to do. by that time i will have some money and i can start on my way.
 
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Arizona iced tea said:
im at a community college right now... i was going to stay in a dorm at a university, but decided to keep the cost down. i figure i will finish a year and then decide what to do. by that time i will have some money and i can start on my way.
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Alright, cool. When you finish up your community college studies and transfer into four-year school, definitely get into the dorms.

As for now, keep in mind if you move out, your cost of living expenses are on your own. You'll discover fast when you move out that it's not just rent...I spend about $300 per month on food, and money on top of that for things like razors, toilet paper, laundry detergent, and other essentials that you can't just tell your mom to pick up from the store anymore. It adds up, so figure out where your priorities are. My opinion is that if you're really trying to keep costs down, stay with your parents until the end of the year when you plan to go onto university.
 
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