"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Want To Make Female Friends

Newbie05

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OK guys, over the last 2 weeks i have been meeting successful people in this area called "confidence with women", and they have been tons generous and helpful, i owe them big time. Now i can approach any woman i see, sure i will feel nervousness approaching extremely attractive women but i know i can do it. I've been doing over 50 canned approaches over the last 4 days.

Now i want to make female friends in order to learn what they think of relationships and in order to polish up my social skills and also there's a big advantage in that these girls will most likely have friends they can introduce me to.

How do i go about doing this? I was thinking of going up to girls and saying "Excuse me / "hey girls" i need some help, i'm trying to make myself more attractive and trying to learn how woman think about relationship, do man really understand what women want in a relationship" and branching off into "i want to be friends with you, what's your email address?" something along those lines. What do you guy's think? How would you guys go about making friends in streets, malls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RaWBLooD

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u say hi, and go from there.
 

Newbie05

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
u say hi, and go from there.
that's not helpful, elaborate your answer.
 
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