"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ItsOnNow

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And give me your honest thoughts. What are you're feelings on feminism? I want to know how you feel? For it,against it,in between,realize it has it's good points and bad point's etc...?? I for one am totally against seeing the damage it has caused. Cause women don't know there place anymore. Yes,I said it. Once it was what we said went,then the bvtiches in the 60's decided to change it all,thus sending it all downhill. Oh sure,there was the "the sexual revolution",but how much did that really mess things up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree. A woman's place is in the home. The men should be the ones to go out and work, provide for their family. This is why we have ****ed up kids today. Women are all out working and not properly raising their kids.
 

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That,and the honest,good men who do,are taken advantage of by the majority of dishonest women. Kids are fvked up for many reasons.
 

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Feminism makes me laugh til I very nearly p!ss myself. I've pulled more than a few women who claim to be feminists but they all want to be fvcked like a ho when it comes down to it.
 

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Women don't often have a choice to stay at home. The economy has become so capitalistic and the labor movement has become so weak that one-income families just aren't viable anymore.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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They are women acting out of their nature and it is un-natural. You try dating a feminist she will be the butch and you will be the b!tch.
 

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How do you tell the difference? Behavior? Attitude? What do you always have to take the lead? What if you're a procrastinator. Another thing that has me worried is stuff like in this article:http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/article3283690.ece

Being seen as mr.good enough and not mr.right. I have always just wanted a girlfreind,someone to date/be with/bang on a regular basis. But I have never had that. Am I damaged goods? Seriously. I have the want,but don't pursue it. What is that?
 

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ItsOnNow said:
How do you tell the difference? Behavior? Attitude? What do you always have to take the lead? What if you're a procrastinator. Another thing that has me worried is stuff like in this article:http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/article3283690.ece

Being seen as mr.good enough and not mr.right. I have always just wanted a girlfreind,someone to date/be with/bang on a regular basis. But I have never had that. Am I damaged goods? Seriously. I have the want,but don't pursue it. What is that?
A feminist woman is a woman who is basically a man. She will take take take. She will not give, she will argue with you, and she will try to have control of the leadership role. Just stay away from them. They're just wannabe men.
 

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They dont want equal rights, they want equal rights where it helps them. *******s.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Mavrick said:
A feminist woman is a woman who is basically a man. She will take take take. She will not give, she will argue with you, and she will try to have control of the leadership role. Just stay away from them. They're just wannabe men.
Yup...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ItsOnNow said:
And give me your honest thoughts. What are you're feelings on feminism? I want to know how you feel? For it,against it,in between,realize it has it's good points and bad point's etc...?? I for one am totally against seeing the damage it has caused. Cause women don't know there place anymore. Yes,I said it. Once it was what we said went,then the bvtiches in the 60's decided to change it all,thus sending it all downhill. Oh sure,there was the "the sexual revolution",but how much did that really mess things up?
Feminism is a manifestation of social disfunction resultant from the destruction of the male female dynamic caused by excessive capitalism and competition...

i.e. in order for female to produce economically at peak efficiency they have to become more masculine in nature so they can compete moire effectively. They have to "unite" and fight the evils males who used to earn all the money.
 
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