"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I want to go on a date. Tonight.

HardTimes

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Theoretical question.

It's 1:45pm on a Friday afternoon and I want to go out on a date tonight by, say, 8-9pm tonight. I have no women to contact so this will have to be someone new. Theoretically how do I make this happen? Say if my life depended on it.

No escorts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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scrouds

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Call up your sister. Hey, if you can't keep it in your pants, at least keep it in the family.
 

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scrouds said:
Call up your sister. Hey, if you can't keep it in your pants, at least keep it in the family.
That's the most pathetic sh*t I ever heard.

You can only do cold approaches and hope to get lucky. Remember that you must assume she's already attracted to you. Props for not wanting a hooker or escort.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Why don't you find a group of girls at the mall or something and see what they are doing tonight? Maybe they are all going to a club or something and you can meet them there. Set a realistic goal if an instant date isn't very common for you. (I know it's a rarity for me since I'm always on the go)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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