"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I want to get laid before the second semester.

Djprep

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Okay, so I've been told I'm a very attractive guy by so many girls. My guy friends say I'm "that dude". I guess it's some slang for a guy who gets girls. They said I could pull any girl I want. I'm 16 years old. The only thing I've ever done with a girl in finger her and make out. I will randonly go out in public and get random girls asking to take a picture with me. Only problem I have with this is most of them are freshman girls. No older girls will approve anyone. And these freshman girls are only 14-15 years old and I don't know if they'll put out. My friends are telling me to just go for it and try one out. I don't want a serious relationship though. If a girl wants a "boyfriend" I would like to get something by 1 month.

There's also this older girl who's apparently "talking" to this guy. She's never by herself though. She's always with friends so I can't approach her. But I know she will put out. And she stares at me every day. Any advice? Also what's the average age girls out out in your experience?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok first- i suggest you post in the high school forum.
but i'm guessing you want some advice from older people.

girls that have already had sex are more likely to put out. older girls are more likely to put out. girls that do drugs, drink, or smoke are more likely to put out.
This is all of course in highschool.
you might end up with a girl who won't put out for whatever reason (wait until marriage, we need to be dating for a year etc) in this case you could always try for the next girl.

as for that older girl, if shes staring at you, she probably likes you. you'll need to keep an eye out for an opportunity to go talk to her- she has to be alone sometime right? another way might be to get acquainted with one of her friends and then this will help you get into that group and closer to her.

anyway for a good looking guy like you, it shouldnt be that difficult. lot of girls like you. you've already touched vagina. all you need is someone who's dtf.
 

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Im in the same boat but in college. I pretty much have up going out because everything is social cliques
 
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