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I want to build up my abs and my muscles, but I have no clue what exercises to do.

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Yes, well, I've been fat for a long time and I've finally decided to do something about it. I have a goal of building up my abs and muscles by the time school starts again in August -- that gives me about 2 months or so, of hard, reckless working out. I basically want to go from, fat, nice kid, to the irresistible guy with a nice body, that all the girls want. I know it's going to take a lot of work, but I have a lot of motivation, every time I start giving up, I start thinking about how, by working out everyday, I'll eventually have 6 Pack Abs. Although can you guys give some tips on exercises to do? I basically want to firm up my butt, build up my abs and build up my muscles, if that helps. Right now, I'm basically just doing about 40 or so sit ups and lift a few weights and while it's helping lose a few pounds, it's not really helping me build up my body. I don't have alot of equipment, so I'm looking for exercises that you can you can just get up and do at home, things like sit-ups, pushups, you get the drill.

I'm about 198 right now, fat, not really built. I want to atleast get my weight down to about 150 by the time school starts, heck, even if it takes after school starts to reach my goal, I'll do it.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Read the cutting guide. That's about all I can say. Losing 50lbs in two months is... well... maybe set your sights a little lower. If you want a good example of what hard work and dedication can get you, check out John Stone Fitness.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yes, well, I've been fat for a long time and I've finally decided to do something about it. I have a goal of building up my abs and muscles by the time school starts again in August -- that gives me about 2 months or so, of hard, reckless working out. I basically want to go from, fat, nice kid, to the irresistible guy with a nice body, that all the girls want. I know it's going to take a lot of work, but I have a lot of motivation, every time I start giving up, I start thinking about how, by working out everyday, I'll eventually have 6 Pack Abs. Although can you guys give some tips on exercises to do? I basically want to firm up my butt, build up my abs and build up my muscles, if that helps. Right now, I'm basically just doing about 40 or so sit ups and lift a few weights and while it's helping lose a few pounds, it's not really helping me build up my body. I don't have alot of equipment, so I'm looking for exercises that you can you can just get up and do at home, things like sit-ups, pushups, you get the drill.

I'm about 198 right now, fat, not really built. I want to atleast get my weight down to about 150 by the time school starts, heck, even if it takes after school starts to reach my goal, I'll do it.
The changes you're looking for is not going to happen in a couple of months. Give it a year and you'll be alright.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Yes, well, I've been fat for a long time and I've finally decided to do something about it. I have a goal of building up my abs and muscles by the time school starts again in August -- that gives me about 2 months or so, of hard, reckless working out. I basically want to go from, fat, nice kid, to the irresistible guy with a nice body, that all the girls want. I know it's going to take a lot of work, but I have a lot of motivation, every time I start giving up, I start thinking about how, by working out everyday, I'll eventually have 6 Pack Abs. Although can you guys give some tips on exercises to do? I basically want to firm up my butt, build up my abs and build up my muscles, if that helps. Right now, I'm basically just doing about 40 or so sit ups and lift a few weights and while it's helping lose a few pounds, it's not really helping me build up my body. I don't have alot of equipment, so I'm looking for exercises that you can you can just get up and do at home, things like sit-ups, pushups, you get the drill.

I'm about 198 right now, fat, not really built. I want to atleast get my weight down to about 150 by the time school starts, heck, even if it takes after school starts to reach my goal, I'll do it.

man, think about it, here's your situation:

you are a fat guy. your goal is not to just lose weight, but to become muscular. however, you can't work out. all this stuff has to happen within 2 months.

basically, you're asking a way to lose 50 pounds (20kgs) and trasform another *at least* 30 pounds (12kgs) of fat muscle in 2 months, by doing pushups and sit-ups. no, there is not, i'm sorry.


anyway, you can become more fit, so here's what i suggest that you should do:


1. i don't care about what other guys say, do lots of cardio. i'm not talking about 20 minutes or so. you have to lose 50 pounds of fat in 2 months, you have to stick a pepper in your ass and start to run all around the city for at least 2 hours a day.

2. ride a bike as much as you can

3. buy a jump rope and skip it while watching tv or surfing the net. watch a scene/read a webpage while skipping. rest while you watch/read the next one. then, skip again. then rest again and so on... you get it

4. never stay still, you should always move

5. start playing some basketball and/or soccer


forget about pushups and situps until you get to 170lbs, then massacre yourself with them
 

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yeah.. .my suggestion, like the dude up there... just go to

www.johnstonefitness.com

Read everything you can there, i'm sure it will help you be what you want, and save us a lot of trouble. Sorry to be in any way harsh, but that'll give you the most realism and such...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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