"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want to build myself an emotional rollercoaster...

flippinfreak

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I just need to know where to start...

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girlsarecrazy

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Fall in love with a girl that has lots of guy friends and commit to a relationship. Then try to compete to be her best guy friend after you were LJBF'd... That will get your emotions all in a roller coaster.
 

flippinfreak

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I want good feelings as well...
 

johnmich

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what exactly do you want to do?
sounds dodgy
 

organizedconfusion

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why the interest? just curious..i am an emotional roller coaster myself, but that's because i have actual issues to deal with that have me on the edge some of the times... it's not fun and it's not as exciting or interesting as you might think it is,it's horrible actually...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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speedo_meme

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DON'T FEED THE TROLL. I wish the mods would wisen up and ban this fool's ip address.
 

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1) Define troll retard
2) Learn how to use the PM system
3) STAY ON TOPIC!!!

organized, that is exactly what I am talking about.

These days my life is boring, seriously, I get out, I talk with wannabe thugs and chill with *****s, smoke out in welfare housing and drink with people that like to gang bang... I am left out of the mix though. Today I crashed my skiddo because of thetwo feet of powder in the hills, machine rolled three times sideways and I could only keep a calm demeanor.

I'm wondering if I have to start comitting crimes these days if I want to get the rush of emotions and feel the ecstasy of not knowing what is going to happen at all anymore.
 

speedo_meme

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1) Person who posts on this board for no other reason than to annoy every decent human being actually using the board for a purpose. This guy gets his rocks off by spurting out retarded info and watching other idiots, equally as ignorant, respond to them.

2) Know full well how to use the PM system.

3) STAY OUT OF THIS FORUM!! (that's the general attitude toward you on this website)
 

organizedconfusion

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speedo_meme said:
1) Person who posts on this board for no other reason than to annoy every decent human being actually using the board for a purpose. This guy gets his rocks off by spurting out retarded info and watching other idiots, equally as ignorant, respond to them.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

i don't know why but i find that humorus :rock:


anyways... EMO the answer is go EMO :cheer:
 
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