"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I want to be the TOP DOG, the Pack Leader
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MindOverMatter
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Honestly Oxide, I would have redone almost everything.Oxide said:Expand on this. What do you wish you would have done?
Starting in high school, I would have actually focused on getting grades instead of chasing ass in clubs with friends, and gotten a decent scholarship. Then I would have found a job with a decent tuition reimbursement plan and had an easy time paying for university education. Instead, I partied hard, focused too much on gaming girls and impressing friends with conquests and I slumped it up. Had to pay my way through school working ****ty jobs, which made it even harder to get good grades. Now that I think about it, with all the money I spent on university, if i had been a little smarter, I could have used it as a downpayment for a house. Instead, here I am, still renting from some landlord.
In university, I would have spent a lot more time studying, instead of partying, chasing ass, and so on. I would have picked a degree with a decent co-op program, and worked my ass off in it so that when I graduated I'd have a swanky buerocratic job waiting for me. Instead, here I am, still working on comission, and hustling people to save up money so I can make some changes.
But to end it on a positive note, it's still not over. Luckily I still got lots of years ahead of me, and a wiser head on my shoulders then I used to.
Rudy_TubeSteak
Senior Don Juan
I'm Baaaaaack..You guys did a lot of good homework while I was away overseas.
But at the moment I am f*ckin tired but I have great stories to tell when I have some time to post.
But at the moment I am f*ckin tired but I have great stories to tell when I have some time to post.
Rudy_TubeSteak
Senior Don Juan
I never said I am trying hard to be alpha nor shown in any way that I am like your friend. How can you compare me to him? It is your opinion and "something" that you sense.
DevanE, my friend..
You say your an alpha? You make me laugh. That word these days is finally giving me the sh*ts. I never said I wanted to be alpha...just going to be big VERY soon.
What you wrote is a joke!!! Ur an alpha? What have you done or planned for mankind? What have you done other than for yourself? Who are you leading? What are your achievements? Alpha boy what have you done to help in this thread apart from blow warm air to try impress people with your "greatness" Do people actually have great expectations of you. Do people have great hopes in the future for you rather than nod their heads and say "ur a good kid, uve done well heres a cookie!"..Do you have higher purpose other than be a cool karate kid? Do you have a vision? DO you have dreams? Are you constantly seeking your core purpose?
I bet you my balls that you couldnt answer these questions. you are only proving what can be done on a superficial level. but hell "With all these talents combined and my magnetic personality & looks I do make for a killer combo with the ladies too."
Why do I have to learn to see myself through other peoples eyes? That bullsh*t, Devane. I dont even have to explain that. I am not a f*ckin performer nor a social monkey seeking for approval. When you find a higher purpose then I think you get to a stage that you wouldn't even start bickering about "seeing yourself through other peoples eyes" That's a peasants way of thinking. You have to act using your instincts not other peoples approval.
Not trying to attack you but that is what I sense from your posts.
DevanE, my friend..
You say your an alpha? You make me laugh. That word these days is finally giving me the sh*ts. I never said I wanted to be alpha...just going to be big VERY soon.
What you wrote is a joke!!! Ur an alpha? What have you done or planned for mankind? What have you done other than for yourself? Who are you leading? What are your achievements? Alpha boy what have you done to help in this thread apart from blow warm air to try impress people with your "greatness" Do people actually have great expectations of you. Do people have great hopes in the future for you rather than nod their heads and say "ur a good kid, uve done well heres a cookie!"..Do you have higher purpose other than be a cool karate kid? Do you have a vision? DO you have dreams? Are you constantly seeking your core purpose?
I bet you my balls that you couldnt answer these questions. you are only proving what can be done on a superficial level. but hell "With all these talents combined and my magnetic personality & looks I do make for a killer combo with the ladies too."
Why do I have to learn to see myself through other peoples eyes? That bullsh*t, Devane. I dont even have to explain that. I am not a f*ckin performer nor a social monkey seeking for approval. When you find a higher purpose then I think you get to a stage that you wouldn't even start bickering about "seeing yourself through other peoples eyes" That's a peasants way of thinking. You have to act using your instincts not other peoples approval.
Not trying to attack you but that is what I sense from your posts.
Ruby tubesteak, your friend is an inspiration. As said before, no one can be alpha at everything, you need to choose one thing to dominate in, a purpose and when you do, it will carry over to everything. You just need a purpose in life.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rudy_TubeSteak
Senior Don Juan
Thank you Mjazz.
DevanE, Read your and first post and then compare it to your second one. Inconsistent. My friend was an inspiration not something I need to compare to. I don't copy him and I don't take on his purpose or whatever he is doing with his own life. And YES you were bragging. Don't deny it, everything you said in the first post was to all gain the focus of attention to yourself. If you did something worth something and in grand proportion why didnt you say it in the first place?
Sure alpha boy, you can easily tell a lot about my character and trait. You can also see that I am the type to put people down. NOW, I have to learn this from "your" eyes and realised I have failed and I can never be an alpha like you anymore.
Ridiculous
DevanE, Read your and first post and then compare it to your second one. Inconsistent. My friend was an inspiration not something I need to compare to. I don't copy him and I don't take on his purpose or whatever he is doing with his own life. And YES you were bragging. Don't deny it, everything you said in the first post was to all gain the focus of attention to yourself. If you did something worth something and in grand proportion why didnt you say it in the first place?
Sure alpha boy, you can easily tell a lot about my character and trait. You can also see that I am the type to put people down. NOW, I have to learn this from "your" eyes and realised I have failed and I can never be an alpha like you anymore.
Ridiculous
Rudy_TubeSteak
Senior Don Juan
Woohoo I just got offered head of security for a region but I turned it down cos of area. It aint the most prestigious job but at least I can get a bit of success somewhere.
Now I've got a cool job landing a Casino Security job which gets me 50K a year full time..its pretty tight but I guess I can move on up later...I am still too young Im still finding my own feet.
Now I've got a cool job landing a Casino Security job which gets me 50K a year full time..its pretty tight but I guess I can move on up later...I am still too young Im still finding my own feet.
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A lot of security dudes are targets for misappropriated anger - the bigger you are the more likely you will die a violent death through a shot to the head - at least in America!!Rudy_TubeSteak said:Woohoo I just got offered head of security for a region but I turned it down cos of area. It aint the most prestigious job but at least I can get a bit of success somewhere.
Now I've got a cool job landing a Casino Security job which gets me 50K a year full time..its pretty tight but I guess I can move on up later...I am still too young Im still finding my own feet.
Rudy_TubeSteak
Senior Don Juan
This is Australia..lol my job at the casino is holiday camp compare to my old doing full moon parties. The casino I am working at has about 2-3 violent confrontations a month where that happens every shift at my old job.
Plus, I may meet a very rich high roller who may have a job opportunity waiting for me.
Plus, I may meet a very rich high roller who may have a job opportunity waiting for me.