I want to be FREE!!!

[vagrant]

I want to let go of my current girlfriend and become single again so I can go after my dream. I'm not blaming her for anything I just want to live a single life sleeping with whoever chick I meet that I like from time to time and have a lot of time for myself to do the things that will get me close to my goals and dreams and other important things.

My problem: My girlfriend will find another guy or maybe even sleep with many other men. I know I don't want to be selfish and if that's what she wants to do I can't do anything about it especially I'm the one who wanted to end the relationship.

It's really something I have to do. I'm only 20 years old. I plan on getting married at age 28 and have kids at 30.

How do I handle this situation?

I don't really consider it a oneitis because I know I can move on if I have to. I think it's more of the thought that guys will just use her for sex after I leave her and I don't like that. She's a very nice girl and I might even settle down with her in the end but right now I really feel is not the right time for us!~

 

[KarmaSutra]

You are the most wishy washy cat here. On one hand you want to split with your girlfriend but you're scared sh!tless that the next guy will come around and fvck her so good she won't remember your fvcking name. How fvcked up you are. This is absolutely infantile mentality and cannot be tolerated.

If you want to go out and score other women than fvcking do it. Why waste another minute of her time or yours? If you can't make an adult decision then give her the facts of what you want and let her make the decision for you.

You cannot have it both ways. Grow the fvck up.

This behaviour absolutely infuriates me to no end.

 

[KontrollerX]

You're just going to have to ask yourself whats more important to you.

Sampling the variety which you crave before ultimately settling down or staying with your nice girlfriend to prevent her from taking d!ck from anyone else.

What regret will be more painful to you in the long run?

Settling down with this nice girl who will probably be good to you for your whole life but then regretting not sampling more candies from the candy jar or pounding a ton of slvts through the matress but then wanting to go back to the nice girl that you love but its too late as she's now married, seriously involved with someone else or is currently single at the time you want to get back together with her but is absolutely opposed to reconciling with you for having dumped her for apparently no good reason.

What regret will hurt you more?

Not pounding the slvts and getting the good girl or pounding the slvts and losing the good girl?

Decide.

 

[vagrant]

I guess I didn't mention the fact that we're in a long distance relationship right now which is killing me. A state isn't far from another state these days but seeing each other every six months or more I think is hard for a guy my age and we're not even married.

People look for a really good relationship but in a situation like mine I just wished our relationship was just as f*cked up as the others so I can easily move on.

From time to time I do want to pound a lot of sluts through the mattress especially when in my room all alone j-rking off.

All my life I thought it would be best to find that girl that you want to spend all your life with while you two are young and not waste time. Now I just wish I met her when I was 25 or something like that when I'm ready to settle down.

 

[guitarmatt18]

why is your life a formula? if you haven't done the things you really want to do and try new things and experience life then you haven't lived. lets face it, you really want to explore, but your gf holds you back.

so break off with her already. its win-win

you get tons of cultural and social experience. physical too. ;]

if she gets 'hit and quitted' well its a lesson she learned and her life will also be enriched as she experiences new cultural and social aspects in her life.

in the end you both attain more than by staying steady. besides you are 20 and no one at 20 gets married unless they are truly in love which you arent since you want to split. also you are 20 and at 28 you want to get married. thats 8 years of experience of the game! remain good friends and you will have everything under your belt by age 28 to win her back if thats how you feel then.

i'd split.

 

[vagrant]

You just opened my eyes. I'll do it in person. I'll save up for April and do what I have to do. I feel like you just released me from prison. I'm ready to roll!~

 

[ducaro]

You are the most wishy washy cat here. On one hand you want to split with your girlfriend but you're scared sh!tless that the next guy will come around and fvck her so good she won't remember your fvcking name. How fvcked up you are. This is absolutely infantile mentality and cannot be tolerated.

If you want to go out and score other women than fvcking do it. Why waste another minute of her time or yours? If you can't make an adult decision then give her the facts of what you want and let her make the decision for you.

You cannot have it both ways. Grow the fvck up.

This behaviour absolutely infuriates me to no end.

Absolutely. I have to agree with what kamasutra says. In fact, this is the first time I see him typing perfect sense!

 

[X-ecution]

You're just going to have to ask yourself whats more important to you.

Sampling the variety which you crave before ultimately settling down or staying with your nice girlfriend to prevent her from taking d!ck from anyone else.

What regret will be more painful to you in the long run?

Settling down with this nice girl who will probably be good to you for your whole life but then regretting not sampling more candies from the candy jar or pounding a ton of slvts through the matress but then wanting to go back to the nice girl that you love but its too late as she's now married, seriously involved with someone else or is currently single at the time you want to get back together with her but is absolutely opposed to reconciling with you for having dumped her for apparently no good reason.

What regret will hurt you more?

Not pounding the slvts and getting the good girl or pounding the slvts and losing the good girl?

Decide.

true man

it's your decision. do what you feel is more important to you
it your life, you make the decisions

you should however, think about it. what are the pros and cons

sure, you could be cool and boast about all the ***** you've had. but you could also be boasting this at age 40 with no woman, *****ing about how the woman you loved found another man. i've seen it happen. nothin sadder than a old played out player.

think about it

 

[X-ecution]

It's really something I have to do. I'm only 20 years old. I plan on getting married at age 28 and have kids at 30.

say what?
we can plan these things now? at this rate you won't be getting married til you take a trip to vegas.

if you want that then why lose a potential wife for some nasty ass slvts who won't even remember your name when she sobers up?