We had some chemistry and I could tell she was into me. Now that she isn't my boss, I want to get her number. How should I go about it? If I just walk in and ask for her number in front of all of my old coworkers, it might put her on the spot, and she's really hot so I don't to get c*ckblocked or have some idiot making dumb comments. And besides, she's introverted and reserved, so I don't want to put her on the spot TOO much. And leaving my personal business card on her car window might seem creepy and lame. Does anyone have any ideas?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I want to ask my old boss from my old job for her number. How should I go about it?
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