"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want this girl, bad.

Landon7

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Well, this is something that I haven't experienced in awhile. I have a hardcore crush with this girl in one of my classes. It's spring break right now and I've been thinking of her every. single. day.

She's in my baking class, she approached me first by asking me a question through her friend, making fun of me in a funny way in which I joked back. Since I wasn't really into the class and didn't give a f about anything at the time I didn't care who she was. But now.. that I've noticed her. Wow. She'll give me looks or talk about me to her friend during class. In the hallway if I pass by her, she has that "low-shy" look on her face looking right at me where we'll stick eye contact. Still, at the time I wasn't really into her. Last time in class I made a facial reaction to her when she was looking at me and I yelled to her. She laughed and had to look away from me because she couldn't stop. A friend of mine yelled "Brah! She wants the D!" I guess I've been displayed a lot of value here as well. I always joke around in the class and make people laugh and I talk to most of the girls.

I have the idea to talk to her, up close once schools back up and were in class. Maybe continue back with the joke and neg her a bit. Since I'll most likely have around 4 minutes to do so, I'm thinking of saying "Darn, looks like class is almost over.. How about you throw me your number and we'll continue this another time, eh?" Or something of that sort.

What I want to know though, is what would YOU do in my situation? What would you say? Remember I have very little time to have a conversation up close.

Also, when I get her number.. What would be a good place to take her out on a date to? I was thinking movies by saying some friends wanted me to come and I'd hate to be a 3rd wheel since they're a couple, and that she could come with me.

I know there are more skilled people out there. The exchange of ideas for situations for this will definitely help me so please please be serious in what you'd do in this situation! Thanks!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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apocolipto

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Your putting her on a pedastal. Put yourself on one, your the prize. That must be your mindset.

You talk to most girls? Then what seperates her? Talk to her and connect and make her laugh :)

Also, don't ask her what you guys are going to do, just take her into your reality. Tell her your going to play pool and she's fun she should join. Whatever, make sure it's fun and not classified as a DATE!

Also, once you get IOI's don't neg the poor girl. Tease her yes but not negs.

Other than that, enjoy her :)

Apoco
 
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