"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Want That Women Aproach Me!

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Well I changed my method about 2 months ago i promised to myself i Dont Go After Chicks But they should come After me!


I go often to Clubs and there chicks watch me sometimes they come near touching me or Watching like some 10 seconds pointing to others and showing me etc... but they dont come to speak with me and Me neather Last night i was dancing on top stage and 3 of them come and begen to rub there body to me but i did not payed attention!!

is that a wrong method that I chooosed??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BJERTE!!! You're back, I missed you!

In fact, I missed you so much I stole your personality and made a fake myspace profile with it... :)
 
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haha that was a poor attempt.

Anyways.. I'll roleplay along. Yes you choooooosed wrong.
 
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Hey Alphawolfx, any chance you could link that myspace profile for us to see? Had any hot women contact you yet?
 
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When you change the rules of the game such as deciding not to approach women, how the hell do you expect to win when the other players (the women) don't know that you've changed the rules? :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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in clubs more women aproch thne on the street, or os it seems, well thats pretty obvious, but either way women will not do the actual aproching very often unless you are increibly good looking, i mena increadibly, like they see brad pitt, although im sure his image does more then his looks do for him.
 
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Originally posted by aliop
Last night i was dancing on top stage and 3 of them come and begen to rub there body to me but i did not payed attention!!
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Is there a clearer signal of high interest level than chicks grinding their nubile bodies into you? They were screaming to you in a nonverbal way "Take us as your concubines!".
 
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I just can't see Brad Pitt getting hit on if he didn't have the whole actor thing going on. I'm a pretty damn good looking guy myself. Seriously, only FAT women approach. The rest of the female population plays the game (you approach, they select, blah blah blah). That is of course unless they are dumbass drunk and are down the mental level of "man I need some c0ck rubbed in my ass!"
 
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well

I changed my mind because i really dont know myself how but in one night i got aproached by my many chicks in nightclub! after that i didnt seen any need to run after them! and nowadays even if i want a chick i dont go after them i wait that they aproach me :) and even when they aproach i means body aproach i still dont have desire to speak with them or touch them! even i feel the need to have her that night in my bed but still!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
As per Jariels's request.

This is my NORMAL profile, where hot girls have contacted me, and I'm hanging out with one on the 23rd (she wanted us to take our dogs to the dog park together) so far...
http://home.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user&Mytoken=20050213131703

This is my Bjerte inspiration... with an INDIAN twist... no one wants to be this guy's friend... poor him

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=9252118&Mytoken=20050213132022
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out of the friends he has, Raji knows some fineass b1tches
 
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they're not his friends... one is a model that he bothered... and she adds EVERYONE

i was her friend, until she asked me if i liked her website, i said no not really you could probably do better, she got mad, we got into a little fight, so i deleted her from my normal profile...

then raji e-mails her
"Raji thinks you are pretty girl. Please come to be friends with Raji? Maybe you give me romance advice, what Raji say to win hearts of pretty girls like yourselves?

The b.itch yells at the ppor guy... "STOP TALKING IN THIRD PERSON"... damn

the other friends he has are in on it...

so far i've gotten one e-mail saying welcom to america, and an explanation of what a swinger is
 
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ahahha

Originally posted by alphawolfx
As per Jariels's request.

This is my NORMAL profile, where hot girls have contacted me, and I'm hanging out with one on the 23rd (she wanted us to take our dogs to the dog park together) so far...
http://home.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user&Mytoken=20050213131703

This is my Bjerte inspiration... with an INDIAN twist... no one wants to be this guy's friend... poor him

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=9252118&Mytoken=20050213132022
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ahha who is this rajoo and etc.?
 
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