"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wasn’t going to bother posting this as its pretty lame and i know what to do but im interested in seeing what others have to say

So was out with one of my social circles last weekend me and one of the HB 7’s in the group have a little bit of thing going on nothing serious mainly just flirting and kissing but i guess it was starting to build up into a little more

Anyway i got pretty (really) hammered and apparently ended up kissing her chubby HB 5 friend who was equally as hammered as i was

I dont remember this happening at all but apparently several people in the group including HB 7 saw it happen and have decided to ridicule me for it

I’ve laughed it off and said i dont remember it happening which i genuinely dont

HB 7 was pretty p1ssed off in the morning , but has since decided to use the situation to her advantage to try and gain the upper hand on me and convinced several members of the group that i “wont be getting another chance with her”

shes doing this to make me chase her and i haven’t...... but im more concerned now about how the group perceives me and im also p1ssed that people think they have the ability to shame me because of a stupid drunk kiss

theres a house party scheduled for Saturday and ive been invited but so has HB 7 and chubby HB 5

im thinking of not showing and taking a plate that isnt involved in this group out to dinner instead , fully aware a few tongues will be wagging as a result

does anyone else have any better ideas ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This has happened to me before. If you don't rise to the bating and just behave normal, all parties will remain interested in you. May be not get so hammered with that group for the next while and act suave with 5, 7 and the rest of the group.

I had a social circle a few years back in which I was having encounters with five or six girls in the extended group, to varying degrees, even two best friends. I got a bit of a rep and some people will frown upon it (basically, they'll be jealous). But in the long run, those who genuinely like and value you as a friend will stick by you anyway.

As for Saturday, I'd go to dinner with chick #3. If you really wanted to stir things up, you could take her to the party afterwards :up: That would soon have #7 chasing after you again.
 

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Your only option is to bang the 5. Then bang the 7. This is the only way to retrieve your honor.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
This has happened to me before. If you don't rise to the bating and just behave normal, all parties will remain interested in you. May be not get so hammered with that group for the next while and act suave with 5, 7 and the rest of the group.

I had a social circle a few years back in which I was having encounters with five or six girls in the extended group, to varying degrees, even two best friends. I got a bit of a rep and some people will frown upon it (basically, they'll be jealous). But in the long run, those who genuinely like and value you as a friend will stick by you anyway.

As for Saturday, I'd go to dinner with chick #3. If you really wanted to stir things up, you could take her to the party afterwards :up: That would soon have #7 chasing after you again.

cheers for the advice TMK were on the same wavelength

will deffo swerve the party on saturday if anything just to show im not constantly at that circles beck and call

had thought about taking plate #3 to the party , but some of the girls there are EXTREMELY b1itchy , especially towards outsider females

and i dont wanna scare my plate off so just going to lay low :up:
 

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I dont want to scare the plate off....wtf....shes a plate you havent banged yet. Plus shes a 7 ...

Who carez what they think bro.

Bang the 5, then the 7, then more and hopefully some 8.5s. Im assuming youre not a 6.

Real friends wouldn't give you grief over a drunk kiss. At least not for how long this group is treating you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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