"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i want my friend!

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theres this chickive wanted for a while, it was going good a few years ago, we flirted and teased eachother when we were at parties or even just hanging out, she knew there was an attraction there. well we went through a time when we didnt hang out for a while. during that time i got myself a girlfriend and she got herself a boyfriend. we became good friends while we were with our significant others...

NOW!

close to 2 years have passed and i became single a couple of months before she became single (recently) now do you all think theres a chance for us to get to it again? and would i go about getting out of the friend zone?!!?!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get intimate with her in a playful/joking way. Flirt. Isolate. Sex.
 
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Get her in bed with you asap. This will create make her feel "so close to you." Trust me it works.
 
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nacho. i got's the same situation going on. so anything you find to help the situation please keep me up to date. i can tell you that right now i remain a challenge to this girl i dont call her, i try to hang out with her as little as possible, i make sure that she finds out about all the cool **** i do and girls i go out with and when we do hang out together i make sure it is something awsome. A couple of weeks ago she called me up cause she was bored so we hung out there wasnt anything going on in our town so i decied to drive us 2hours away to the ocean just to ride rollercoasters on the boardwalk. However I know that we both want more but we have become comfortable in this situation that we have right now and thats the part i havent figured out yet. I know if i bring it up sh!t wont work cause thats the way girls are. I used to love the situation we had cause i could see other girls and have fun with them and when i wanted someone to make me feel grounded i would go with her but now i want more.


So i can tell you that.
-Remaining a Challenge-
-being flirty and using neg hits_
-being unaviable-
-having fun without her-
all of that sh!t is defently working to keep her IL sky high so defently make sure to do that but the problem is the Connection barrier thats up between us were not sure if were great friends or lovers. So i guess you and i will have to figure that part out. I will defently let you know if i come up with anything and if you find out something that works please hook me up. I think Austizzle defently has the right idea we just need to find a way to pull it off. My guess is it's going to be all about timing.

Good luck bro cause as fun as it is to be with lots of different all the time finding someone that you truly want to be with is what it's all about.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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