"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want my body to look like this...

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This was my workout earlier. Now i'm gonna follow what irresistible gave me, any suggestions??

Day 1

10-15 min Treadmill

Pull Ups (Wide Grip)
Lat Pull Down Machine
Barbell Bent Over-Row

Bicep Curls (Barbell)

Abs

Day 2

10min Cardio

Squats, Lunges, Leg curls, Leg raises.

Day 3

Cardio

Push Ups
Incline Bench Press (DB)
Decline Bench Press (DB)

Chin Ups
Shoulder Press (DB)

Tricep Pushdown

Abs


IrReSiStIbLe said:
It's true, only reason he looks big is coz of the lighting. My body is quite similair to his in actual fact (I've got better abs). i'm 7% body fat.

I work as an Exercise Physiologist (Testing people's fitness levels and testing athletes for drugs) and a personal trainer on my other days. Looks like you're on the right track in terms of dividing your routine but if I was you I'd probably divide it as follows-
DAY 1 (Upper Body)- 10 minutes cardio warm up at a low/medium intensity (Prefferably rowing machine), Upper body- bench (DB) <---superset--->Pullups/lat pulldown/chinups, Bicep curls <---superset---> Tricep pushowns, Shoulder press, Crunches on swiss ball.

DAY 2 (lower body)- 10 minutes warm up, Squats, Lunges, ham curls, calf raises, leg raises.

Day 3 (Multi Joint exercises) - 30 minutes of cardio, bench press (High reps- 10-12), chin ups, Shoulder press, dips, abs.

+ Cardio on every other day.

this is what i think would be best for you, also considering you would work the weights at a high intensity, fully pushing yourself + varying your reps and workouts every once in a while.

Cheers,
Irre.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can someone please tell me if this workout is alright !?
 
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