"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm a skinny fellow and i've got less body fat yet there is some fat on my stomach!! i workout 5 days a week (i do my ab exercises after each workout). I've been working out for 8 months, my biceps, chest, legs etc. are becoming stronger and muscular. But, the fat over my stomach wont go !! How do i get rid of this fat?? if i do too much cardio ill loose body weight and im already skinny so i cant afford to loose any weight....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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probably, it's not fat... it's air in your stomach... either you eat bad or you are allergic to lactose...
 

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You have to change your diet. Period.

Cut out all the sugar from sweets, cokes, stuff like that.
Don't eat a bunch of carbs at night.
Eat more protein.
Most of all your gonna have to eat few calories than your body needs otherwise your not going to burn the stored fat in your stomach.

Put all your energy into your diet and not so much into working out or cardio and the fat will come off.
 

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Originally posted by harwell
You have to change your diet. Period.

Cut out all the sugar from sweets, cokes, stuff like that.
Don't eat a bunch of carbs at night.
Eat more protein.
Most of all your gonna have to eat few calories than your body needs otherwise your not going to burn the stored fat in your stomach.

Put all your energy into your diet and not so much into working out or cardio and the fat will come off.
I gained tons of definition in that area by really lowering my sodium intake. The extra water retention definitely impaired my definition.
 

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Originally posted by harwell
You have to change your diet. Period.

Cut out all the sugar from sweets, cokes, stuff like that.
Don't eat a bunch of carbs at night.
Eat more protein.
Most of all your gonna have to eat few calories than your body needs otherwise your not going to burn the stored fat in your stomach.

Put all your energy into your diet and not so much into working out or cardio and the fat will come off.

Im on a 4,000 calorie a day diet, I dont think this is necessarily true. You just need to have intense workouts, and have the motivation to keep with it. If you find an ab workout/routine/machine you like, just stick with it. They will come in time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's entirely true. If you want to get fast results for your abs you need to change your diet. Hard running will also define your abs and probably the best ab workout - hanging knee rises with a weight for your lower abs.
 

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Thanks for the suggestions.. any more advice is welcome. Anyway what do you mean by hard running ?
 

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read the cutting guide n1gga. if you do it right you will keep your muscle and only use your little bit of fat!!but only do it if it's really important for you it's a pain you gotta have a lot of disicipline!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by sinner
I'm a skinny fellow and i've got less body fat yet there is some fat on my stomach!! i workout 5 days a week (i do my ab exercises after each workout). I've been working out for 8 months, my biceps, chest, legs etc. are becoming stronger and muscular. But, the fat over my stomach wont go !! How do i get rid of this fat?? if i do too much cardio ill loose body weight and im already skinny so i cant afford to loose any weight....

This happens to men as the age and your metabolism slows down.

First thing you need to do is look at your diet. Start cutting the excess carbs out of your diet. Eat a higher lean protien diet.

Next your new best friend is going to be the big rubber exercise ball and you are going to have to do lots and lots of crunches.
 

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Originally posted by incognito42
Im on a 4,000 calorie a day diet, I dont think this is necessarily true. You just need to have intense workouts, and have the motivation to keep with it. If you find an ab workout/routine/machine you like, just stick with it. They will come in time.
Big difference when you are 18 chief than when you are over 30. The medobolic rate of an 18 yo is usually radically different than a 30 year old man
 

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What kind of product do I have to cut away to lower the sodium intake?
I'm not saying that you should completely cut sodium from your diet although many people swear that you need too. Sodium (found in salt) is necessary for the body to absorb water but it isn't needed in abundance.

For me, dramatically reducing the amount of chips I ate made a HUGE difference. In addition to being loaded with bad carbohydrates, the sodium levels are extremely high. I restrict myself to a a small bag of chips week or less. It's enough for me to work off with just a couple of days of normal exercise.

Understand that being a cyclist the majority of my exercise is aerobic. Proper hydration is also important so I do need some level of sodium intake (thus my need to drink Gatorade).

As suggested, read Diesel's Cutting Guide located in this forum. It's really good.
 
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